~rubs hands together~
I am a headband-advocating, British, vintage-selling, polyamorous sort. I am sensual and mischievous, poetic, warm and playful. I enjoying talking deeply, soulfully and philosophically. I can also speak the most bizarrely insignificant crap. ~grins~
I appreciate compassion and empathy. I like to think, listen and look you in the eyes when we talk. I find the combination of confidence and strength, with humility, attractive. I am intimate, open and passionate. I could talk to you for hours about human behaviour, relationships, polyamory, kink, poetry, travel, music and food. I am genuinely interested in your stories, desires, opinions, and ideas. I enjoy open mindedness, freedom, and people who speak with some inhibition, yet play with none.
I am looking for articulate souls, deep thinkers, elegant flirts, and intelligence in any form that may take. I think that the mind is an utterly fascinatingly sexy thing. If you like the sound of all of this, we'll get along perfectly.
I am extremely fortunate to split my time between California and the UK. Because of this, I am able to take a flexible approach to connections. I would rather have a rich, exciting, mutually-meaningful relationship, however little or often we see each other, than be confined to conventional rules and dating structures. I already have a wonderful partner/wife and I am entirely open to platonic friendships, play partners and lovers.
Finally, I lean towards the Dominant/Top end of the kink spectrum... for those who are so inclined. However, though I entirely welcome submissives, being submissive is truly is not a prerequisite for me to be attracted to you. If you are vanilla, straight or of a nervous disposition, I do promise not to tie you to the ceiling. I may, however, subtly attempt to lure you down my path of devilry with a cupcake/kale (as per your persuasion)... ~mischievous grin~
Oh.. and should you wish to know my MBIT type... ~grins~... I'm both ENFP and INFP, which are actually both surprisingly accurate summaries.
Still reading? ~grins~ Want that cupcake?