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If you are polyamorous, poly friendly, or poly curious AND you live near Los Angeles, or are willing to drive here, please join the Southern California Polyamory Meetup Group I am the Organizer of this Meetup, so let me know you found it on OKCupid :-). Events are generally held in the San Fernando Valley.

Since so many seem to not read profiles all the way to the end, I am going to start off by saying I am in a relationship, several actually, and yes, they all know about one another. I am not looking for replacements!!! I am not looking for new relationships!!! I am also not looking for casual sex partners. I am on OKCupid to meet new people, make new friends and take the tests. I am currently Collared and owned, so any "new" love interests need to be run by my Master for His inspection and approval (if you do not know what this means, please message me and ask.). Also, if you are not poly, or poly curious, we can only be friends. All messages sent to me are forwarded, to my Master and to my partner(s) for our viewing pleasure. (This is to hopefully scare off the Horny Net Geeks "HNG's) If this does not scare you off, then by all means, keep reading :-) Also, anything highlighted in "pink" is a clickable link that will take you off of the OKC site. :-)

I believe the Match function on OKC is very accurate once you have answered over 1000 questions. I highly recommend that everyone answer at least that many. All of my long term relationships match me at 80% and above. I love making new friends, so please do not hesitate to message me if you are looking for a friend. One can't have too many friends :-)

As far as the new WTF reports, do not expect me to approve a request for a report unless I know you VERY well.

I am not your typical run of the mill American female, at least not according to society's norms. It is not that I try to go against them, I just don't fit the mold. I love to wear dresses, corsets and high heel boots with a leather miniskirt, but I am just as likely to be found wearing blue jeans and a t-shirt or a business suit. I am very dominant in my day to day living, but submissive in a relationship (once enough trust is built up). It is easy for me to switch roles in either situation when necessary (even though I may not like to switch). I fall somewhere in the middle of what society expects, and what it doesn't. Many find me an enigma when they first meet me, yet once they get to know me, I am easy to understand. I enjoy surprising people. I also enjoy being surprised. I walk the middle ground in most areas of my life. I seem to attract the extremes to me, pleasure and pain (I am currently Owned - R.A.C.K.), light and dark, etc. I aspire to find the fulcrum between extremes and allow them to co-exist in harmony. More often than not, I am successful.

I am a 3rd degree Priestess. I practice eclectic Left Hand Path Paganism, always walking the line between the light and dark sides. Want to know more, just ask. I follow my own religious path, which I describe as being eclectic LHP(Left Hand Path) Paganism. I also like the ideas and possibilities proposed by the Quantum Physics Theory of Observer Created Reality. I am a full believer in The Secret, and in the theories proposed in The Celestine Prophecy. These in turn go right along with "The Law of Attraction."

I have 2 children, both boys who are the loves of my life. I have a BA in Child Development. I am an INFP - Healer on the Meyers Briggs personality rating scale. I am polyamorous, meaning I practice polyamory, (polyamoury). I am not interested in traditional single husband/wife or girlfriend/boyfriend relationships or polyfidelity. The model I base my relationships on is Multiple Primary Open relationship. Other words related to that topic include polyfidelity, fluid relationships and non-monogamy. I am bisexual, with a preference for men. I am currently involved in a multi-partner poly relationship, and have no desire to leave any of my partners, so please don't try to turn me monogamous. I have been monogamous in the past, and it just does not work for me, I have too much to give. I am very picky about my partners, and adhere to a strict fluid bond protocol within my relationships, and require my partners to do the same. Trust is the basis of a relationship, and the health of all members is of utmost importance. I do not have any STD's and would like to keep it that way.

I am currently the organizer for the Southern California Polyamory Meetup Group. Please feel free to join.

I am also raising my kids to the best of my ability. Although my partners do help me out with the kids, I am essentially a single mom. One of my children has been diagnosed with High Functioning Autistic Disorder which is similar to Asperger's Syndrome. Both disorders are on the Autism spectrum, for ease of reference usually shortened to the acronym ASD. Much of my time is currently spent getting his needs met. My other son has been diagnosed with ADHD-I, (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder - Inattentive subtype) and Dysthymic Disorder, so I am working with the school to try to get his needs met as well. Much of my time is currently spent addressing the special needs of my children.

I enjoy trying new things, and pushing my own limitations. My explorations have resulted in many changes over the past two years. I have come to the realization that I m not happy in monogamous relationships. My heart is way to big to be able to love only one person. I also do not like the baggage that goes along with most monogamous relationships. I also do not like the idea of needing a partner to change who they are to suit my needs, nor do I want to have to change who I am to suit them. I would much rather be able to accept what they bring to the relationship, and find another partner to fill in any gaps. (i.e. a male partner cannot fill the need I have of being with a woman)

I am really good at moderating discussions, getting people to see each others points of view. I am very good at knowing my own limitations, and am not afraid to speak up when need be. I am really good at reading other people's emotions, and have a knack for being able to see all sides of a situation.

I am good at offering advice, giving moral support, etc..... or so I have been told. I enjoy helping people as much as possible. I find it easier to keep my cool, than to lose it, and many people seem to respect the fact it is difficult to rile me.

I am tall, have long red hair, and green eyes. I am brutally honest. Many people make the assumption I am a fluffy bunny, and are surprised to find out I do have a very sharp set of fangs when I am crossed. My family and friends are my life, so don't even think ill of them.

1. My Kids / My Family / My Friends

2. Blood / Oxygen to the cells is a good thing!!

3. The Law of Attraction / The Secret / Observer Created Reality

4. Polyamory/ My TeufelWolf / My Master / Partners / My sisters in Collar

5. Sex / Kink / R.A.C.K.

6. Sleep

Helping others, learning about myself, learning about others, new things I want to try, my children, my partners and my friends.

I also think a lot about, energy balancing, tantra, magick, sexual experimentation ( I like to be kinky on occasion), and life in general.

I love to experience new things, and I love to push my own limits. I like to think about what makes "me" tick. I also like to observe others and figure out what makes them tick as well.

I enjoy cuddling, giving and receiving massage (I used to do it professionally), holding hands, falling asleep in my lover's arms, looking into people's eyes, making friends, helping others, learning, sleeping during the day, and staying up all night.

I have issues with the sun, so I tend to avoid it. The bright light and UV rays tend to give me migraines.

Either taking care of my kids, or hanging out with friends.

Along with running the Southern California Polyamory Meetup Group I also attend events held at Live the Dream, a Polyamory Support Group in the San Fernando Valley. Some of the events for the meetup group I organize are held at the Live the DreamSouthern California Polyamory Meetup Group website to find out more about it.

Private? Hmm, I think you would have to ask my Master this question....

You have an interest in Paganism, Friendship, Polyamory, the Occult, etc.

You also have kids with special needs.

My having other partners does not scare you off.

You need someone to talk to.

You should NOT message me if you are ONLY interested in sex. Not only I will ignore you, but I will forward the messages to my Master and other partners for their viewing pleasure, and I also have a tendency to post conversations to my blog.

I am picky about my partners, and need a spiritual bond in order to enjoy a physical one. Also do not message me if you think you can change my relationship preference. I was in a monogamous relationship for 13.5 years and will never do it again.