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38 Chico, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 5:08am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Human, female, U.S. citizen, resident of California, county of Butte, city of Chico who can't see the people that 'like' me. So if you really do like me you'll have to message me to let me know. ;)

I thought maybe it would be easier to just list what I'm looking for up front for efficiency's sake.
A man that is happy with his life as it is at the moment and a good relationship would be just icing on the cake.
Intelligence and curiosity about the world around him, and the world in general.
Kindness, this is really important. I judge people's moral character based on how they treat animals, the environment, special needs people, servers, and the elderly.
A good sense of humor, he can laugh at highbrow and lowbrow comedy.
Strength. I'm not talking about physical strength (although that's a plus too.) I mean a person that is able to see a challenge coming, know it will be unpleasant and difficult yet simply set his mind to it and push through with grace and a minimum of grumbling.

I am not looking for a fairy tale, rather a good person that I enjoy spending time with, and wouldn't it be great if we like having sex with each other too?! :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I work with special needs kids from preschool to 8th grade as a speech and language pathologist. It's absolutely the most wonderful, challenging, heart warming, and heart breaking experience I've had.
Other than that, I'm just trying to live a life that has joy and depth.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm SO good at laughing loudly and inappropriately, cooking, remembering useless trivia and generally knowing facts about things that people really don't care about.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are a mystery to me. I'm not other people.
But I have been told by people that their initial impression of my shyness was WRONG. I am not shy or demure once I'm comfortable with you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read, I love movies, I love music, and food. How does one narrow these down into a short list?! I'll try.

As far as music is concerned I am open to almost any type of music as long as it was made with passion and some talent. Some of my favorites are; The Beatles, MGMT, Bob Dylan, Kate Bush, Talking Heads, Bjork, Peter Gabriel, Tom Waits, Feist, Neko Case, Bon Iver, Otis Redding, Stevie Wonder, Joni Mitchell, Rickie Lee Jones, Led Zeppelin, The Black Keys, Erik Satie, Black Sabbath, CocoRosie, My Brightest Diamond, Nina Simone, Joanna Newsom, TV On The Radio, Grizzly Bear, Cults, Sufjan Stevens, and on and on and on . . .
Dancing! I love it, but mostly do it in the privacy of my house, except when I'm really drunk.
I'm a podcast addict as well, This American Life, Wait wait, Radiolab (!), The Moth, All Songs Considered

Some movies that I love are To Kill a Mockingbird, The Jerk, The Princess and The Warrior, Fitzcarraldo (essentially every Herzog movie) , Wes Anderson movies, Morvern Callar, Dead Man's Shoes, Shaun of the Dead, After The Wedding, Amelie, Red Road, Monty Python movies and I have to admit that I really like gross zombie/horror movies like Dead Alive.

Some of my favorite TV shows are British such as Nevermind The Buzzcock and The Graham Norton Show, Sherlock, Downton Abbey, Qi, anything with or narrated by Stephen Fry. I also like Dirty Jobs, True Blood, Dexter, Mad Men, Homicide, PBS shows (Masterpiece Theatre, Mystery, Nature), and THE WIRE!!!!!!!!!!

I'm an only child and books were my playmates. I have been known to read a book a day. I can only narrow the list down to one that I never tire of reading, Jane Eyre.

I was a professional cook for five years. Food is a great passion of mine, and I'll try most anything once. Except really stinky foods or some offal meats.
I do restrict my meat consumption to locally raised, humanely slaughtered and preferably organic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A shower in the morning, my bed, my family, my friends, coffee, and fresh air. Not necessarily in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. Nothing. Something.
My mind tends to wander around on it's own accord. Not literally, that would be creepy and I would die.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends for dinner and drinks. This may lead to other mischievous activities, but what you don't know won't hurt you.
Or, as I am doing right now, dancing around drunkenly in my living room singing at the top of my lungs to this song.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This is a trick! It can't be a very private thing if one is willing to post it on the internet.

Oh, if I'm really hungry and my stomach growls very hard . . . I sneeze. Yep, that's as private as I'm getting on the interweb.

And one more thing, I'm pretty shy about making the first move with someone that I like. To the point that is probably detrimental to my social life, but I'm trying to change that.
You should message me if
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You have a good sense of humor (meaning you can laugh at yourself and appreciate the absurdities of life).
You are a kind, intelligent person who is interested in an honest relationship.