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LadyMacM

37 F Chico, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:47pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Human, female, U.S. citizen, resident of California, county of Butte, city of Chico.
What I’m doing with my life
Battling my way through grad school, punctuated with moments of a social life.

**I finished grad school, but it doesn't seem quite real yet. Now I am trying to decide where to apply for a job, and when I say where I mean like Alaska vs. Maine where. It's a damn big country.
I’m really good at
I'm SO good at laughing loudly and inappropriately, cooking, remembering useless trivia and generally knowing facts about things that people really don't care about.
My friends tell me that I'm good at listening and giving advice. I would rather be the friend they call for a crazy night of fun, but it always seems to be that I'm the nurturer in the group.
The first things people usually notice about me
are a mystery to me. I'm not other people.
But I have been told by people that their initial impression of my shyness was WRONG. I am not shy or demure once I'm comfortable with you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read, I love movies, I love music, and food. How does one narrow these down into a short list?! I'll try.

As far as music is concerned I am open to almost any type of music as long as it was made with passion and some talent. Some of my favorites are; The Beatles, MGMT, Bob Dylan, Kate Bush, Talking Heads, Bjork, Peter Gabriel, Tom Waits, Feist, Neko Case, Bon Iver, Otis Redding, Stevie Wonder, Joni Mitchell, Rickie Lee Jones, Led Zeppelin, The Black Keys, Erik Satie, Black Sabbath, CocoRosie, My Brightest Diamond, Nina Simone, Joanna Newsom, TV On The Radio, Grizzly Bear, Cults, Sufjan Stevens, and on and on and on . . .
Dancing! I love it, but mostly do it in the privacy of my house, except when I'm really drunk.
I'm a podcast addict as well, This American Life, Wait wait, Radiolab (!), The Moth, All Songs Considered

Some movies that I love are To Kill a Mockingbird, The Jerk, The Princess and The Warrior, Fitzcarraldo (essentially every Herzog movie) , Wes Anderson movies, Morvern Callar, Dead Man's Shoes, Shaun of the Dead, After The Wedding, Amelie, Red Road, Monty Python movies and I have to admit that I really like gross zombie/horror movies like Dead Alive.

Some of my favorite TV shows are British such as Nevermind The Buzzcock and The Graham Norton Show, Sherlock, Downton Abbey, Qi, anything with or narrated by Stephen Fry. I also like Dirty Jobs, True Blood, Dexter, Mad Men, Homicide, PBS shows (Masterpiece Theatre, Mystery, Nature), and THE WIRE!!!!!!!!!!

I'm an only child and books were my playmates. I have been known to read a book a day. I can only narrow the list down to one that I never tire of reading, Jane Eyre.

I was a professional cook for five years. Food is a great passion of mine, and I'll try most anything once. Except really stinky foods or some offal meats.
I do restrict my meat consumption to locally raised, humanely slaughtered and preferably organic.
The six things I could never do without
A shower in the morning, my cat, my bed, my family, my friends, coffee. Not necessarily in that order.

Lost my cat, and it was incredibly hard and sad. Pets always break your heart eventually.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. Nothing. Something.
My mind tends to wander around on it's own accord. Not literally, that would be creepy and I would die.
On a typical Friday night I am
out with friends for dinner and drinks. This may lead to other mischievous activities, but what you don't know won't hurt you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This is a trick! It can't be a very private thing if one is willing to post it on the internet.

Oh, if I'm really hungry and my stomach growls very hard . . . I sneeze. Yep, that's as private as I'm getting on the interweb.

And one more thing, I'm pretty shy about making the first move with someone that I like. To the point that is probably detrimental to my social life, but I'm trying to change that.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have a good sense of humor (meaning you can laugh at yourself and appreciate the absurdities of life).
You are a kind, intelligent person who is interested in an honest relationship.