I don’t follow politics or sports because honestly, I get too worked up. My faith is my own, but I’m happy to share my beliefs and views with others, and won’t push mine on you. I’ll expect the same consideration. That doesn’t mean I don’t like a good discussion! Bring it! I can speak on many topics and enjoy debating.
I enjoy getting out and doing things, but do sometimes have to be enticed. I have a tendency to sit and zone out in my own head when left to my own devices, creating new worlds that I enjoy. But it takes very little persuasion to convince me to go meet new people or try new things. Introduce me to something you are passionate about!
I am currently exiting a long term (20 year) relationship, and my ex and I are on great terms, which is necessary as we co-parent our daughter. I am slowly dipping my toe into the dating world, so patience is a must. If you are looking for an easy lay, I’m not the person for you. I’m looking for someone willing to spend some time getting to know me, who knows the value of developing a friendship, and who respects me and themselves enough to enjoy the antici…pation!
I grew up Goth and Alternative in Southern California during the 80’s and 90’s, so my tastes are different from the Midwestern norm. While I’m relaxing at home, NIN or Depeche Mode is likely to be playing, though lately I’ve been thoroughly enjoying Florence + The Machine, Breaking Benjamin, Seether, and a few other things. What’s in rotation for you musically right now?
I am on a unique combination of meds that means I can’t drink. I don’t mind if you drink, but understand that I really can’t imbibe. Thankfully, virgin drinks are still allowed, so I’ll sip my virgin Pina Coloda or a glass of iced tea while you enjoy a drink if you so desire.
I have very tasteful tattoos and one or two piercings. I've recently discovered my current natural hair color. That took some getting used to believe me. But I like it and in this time of bleaching and dyeing, it takes courage to go against the norm.
I am looking for a partner, a companion or simply a good conversation. I need to relearn how to talk to men and how to move forward past my heartache. I can't do it on my own so I really do need your help. Especially if you are someone I can share my quarks with, who will laugh with me and challenge me.
If I haven’t completely frightened you off, send me a message. Tell me what part of my profile intrigued you.