Gotta put that warning out there, but really, I'm a pretty nice person. Right now I'm in a wonderful marriage and not looking to change that. I'm still on this site to meet other females or couples that are looking for friends (and maybe friends with benefits!) My husband and I are long-time swingers and enjoy meeting other people who are open about their sexuality but we are by no means pushy about it. No, I will not have a threesome with you without my husband present, but we are very open to a full or soft swap scenario. I am absolutely open to getting together with a female one on one, but I'm not really looking for a long-term, committed relationship on the side completely separate from my husband. Having been on the other end of the "bi girl on OKC" stick, I know how obnoxious the unicorn hunters can be, so I tend not to message other people very often because I don't want to come across as aggressive. I genuinely like getting to know new people, sex or no sex. I am attracted to people of many different gender orientations and truly believe that embracing your sexuality is a healthy, positive thing. While I want to be upfront about that stuff, it's definitely not the end-all of who I am.
As for the actual "who am I" bit, I've spent the last 10 years trying to figure that out and I think I'm finally coming up with some answers. I'm a hopeless optimist trapped in the real world, a happy homebody who sometimes comes down with a strong case of wanderlust. I am a giver by nature, but I'm not afraid to receive in return. I have a deep love for words and language, but I'm a lazy literarian who spends more time reading pop fiction than Shakespeare - though I can still recite you a sonnet or two. I am just as comfortable in a cocktail dress and heels as I am in cargo pants and work boots, I like to do my nails just as much as I like getting my hands dirty, and I absolutely hate being told that I can't do something. I would do absolutely anything for the people I love, and I have a very long temper - except when I don't. I am loving, and I am flawed, and I am very, very human. And you know what? I wouldn't change that for anything.