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51 Gastonia, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:35pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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“You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching,
Love like you'll never be hurt,
Sing like there's nobody listening,
And live like it's heaven on earth.”

About me. I always find this the difficult part. Talking about myself is never easy for me. I consider myself a very confident Lady and believe that letting my actions not my words speak for me and the person I am.

But here goes, I am a honest, loyal, open, direct, trustworthy, dependable and compassionate Woman

I am a true loving passionate and sensual partner. I enjoy long deep kisses. Kissing and being kissed. Touching and being touched. I am a hugger, hand holder and love to cuddle and spoon

I have no issues with public display of affection as long as it is respectful.

I believe in standing up, by and supporting my partner when times are good and bad. I will always have my Man's back. This must be a mutual partnership in order for 'US' to work.

Communication is very vital in any relationship especially an intimate relationship. The importance of hearing as much as listening is the key. Communication MUST always be a two way.

I am serious minded but I enjoy all the fun that life has to offer.

I am seeking a relationship within 30 miles of Gastonia, NC.

I am looking for a Man that possesses same traits as myself (please read above). Someone loyal and trustworthy. A mutual confidant who I can share my best and worst secrets with.

NOT to SCARE or SCAR anyone here But in ALL honesty & Fairness, Friends before Lovers is very important. Not looking for just a date but a date that could possibly lead to a serious Monogamous relationship is my long term goal.

The last 1st KISS with my Best Friend/Soul Mate.

One last but very important thing, NO Smokers please.:
What I’m doing with my life
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Living my life the best I know how. Taking each day as it comes and making each one count. We have only one to live!!

When my end comes I don't only want to have lived the length of it. I also want to have lived the width of it as well.

I want to make the best of all first impressions. You can never change one.

I have been single for a long time and now ready to accept someone new to make a positive impact in my life. Someone to share all with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at being the best confidant and friend.

I am really good at loving and allowing myself to be loved.

Really hard to expand here. If we were to meet, you would have to decide and add to my list :>)
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing or things first noticed are my eyes and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite books are self help.

My favorite movies range from Romance to Horror.

My favorite TV shows are any CSI, Law & Order, NCIS, First 48 Hours. Any mystery and or crime stories. I am still in mourning from the cancellation of The Closer :<(

I am a fan of all music but my favorite would be R & B including the Old school.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My belief in Christ
My family
My partner's love & touch
Human touch
Really hard to categorize in order. ALL are very important to me,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Honestly. I spend a lot of time thinking about my future and what I can do to accomplish my heart desires.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typically, on Friday night I am either at home or at dinner with one of my girlfriends.

I am looking for that to change. Hoping for that to change. Praying for that to change.

I love my girlfriends, just don't want to date them.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That will be a private conversation with my new partner *_*
You should message me if
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If my profile has left you wanting to know more about me.

Only if you have a picture.