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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 40-55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 16, 2013
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Has cats
English (Fluently), Russian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Me is too big a question to answer all at once. I've been accused of being cute, funny, charming, kind.. but I like to think that's all just propaganda. I read too much, will talk with anyone about anything, and will probably update this summary a dozen times before I know what I really want to say.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on 2 big projects, 2 small ones and trying to teach myself Russian. Eventually I'll get back to writing the novel that's been trapped in my head for 3 years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Late night conversations about the mysteries of the universe and the human condition. I'm also really good at making people feel at ease.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes. I wish it was something else, I really do. People tell me I have beautiful eyes, and I am always tempted to reply with "Gee, thanks, I'll tell my mother you like them." They're genetic, I had nothing to do with them.
... hm.. Maybe the first thing people notice about me is that I'm contentious?.. Nah!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books... I read anything I can get my hands on. But to narrow that list a bit. David Eddings is a genius, and I've recently discovered a brilliant writer named Patrick Rothfuss (He's from Wisconsin). I'm also madly in love with Mikhail Bulgakov.

Movies.. Shaun of the Dead, What Dreams May Come, Powder, and Independence Day. And about 2 dozen more favorites, and hundreds I'd watch again if I had the chance. I like foreign films and usually think comedies are more stupid than funny. It's always nice when one surprises me.

TV Shows.. I don't watch much TV. But Walking Dead on AMC is awesome.

Music.. Very eclectic tastes, my iPod freaks people out. Usually it's a very good kind of freak out, like "Oh wow, where'd you find this obscure gypsy cellist!" Classical, Jazz, World beats, really anything that fits the mood.

Food.. Indian, Good Chinese, Sushi, Mexican, Italian, Soups my mother used to make. I like variety, I'm not a meat and potatoes person.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, Green spaces, Great conversations, The smell of fresh brewed coffee, The feel of the sun on my face. And the random phone calls from my daughter when she's seeking advice.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Russian spelling tests. No really... Those are hard!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working late, then watching a movie, laughing with friends, and playing on the computer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That enneagram test is wrong. I'm a type 5. There might be other things I'd admit, but I'm selective with my audiences.
You should message me if
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