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29 • Lebanon, NJ • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 27–35
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Mar 23
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has cats
- English (Fluently)
I sing in my car, and dance while I shower and cook.
I also love spending time with my cats (don't worry, there's only two of them), but am unfortunately given to calling them my "kids" (oh yeah). I will choose them over you if you put me in a position to do so, so maybe don't do that.
I have a genetic propensity to being sort of tightly wound (thanks mom) as well a predisposition to lateness (thanks dad). We all struggle with not becoming our parents, so I'm working on both of these faults. No no, don't worry, when I've mastered these there's plenty more to keep me busy ; )
I haven't prioritized dating for many years, preferring instead to focus on my career and personal independence. It still doesn't rate very highly, I won't lie, but everyone keeps telling me that I'll make time for the "right person". I snear sarcastically every time this is said to me, but I'm open to the possibility.
The rest you'd need to ask about...
Working as a psychiatric nurse in the community. UPDATE: I've been promoted! I'm going to being getting a medically enhanced residential psych support team up and running--- they're making me the boss-lady. This is very exciting, but will mean that I will be exceptionally busy for a while. Don't be sad if I don't respond to your message for some time after you send it because dating will be getting placed lower on the list of priorities for a bit.
I enjoy being active. I have been into ballroom dancing for a few years and recently started training in Krav Maga. ( I know, I know--- I tried yoga first. Turns out I'm just not that fucking zen. ) I also hit the gym regularly. Exercise is how I deal with stress... and that third helping that I just needed to have...
Exceeding the speed limit without getting caught.
Cooking, and wearing my frilly red apron while I do so.
Shaking my groove thang.
Being straightforward about what I want.
Resetting the time on electronics, including the one in your car.
I don't watch TV. I haven't had any sort of TV programming in my home for over 6 years and I do realize this makes me very odd in most people's eyes. I watch only movies! And I'm pretty open to most genres, though I don't usually prefer war movies. I will admit to a growing library of cheesy dance flicks-- it's a weakness!
My music preferences vary from day to day. But I'm not typically in for country, hard-core gangsta rap, or screaming metal.
I LOVE food-- eating, making it, thinking about it endlessly... I have a very short list of things I won't eat.
2. A hairbrush and Chapstick
3. My sister
4. My "kids" (you were warned)
5. Can I list coffee again?
You know and understand the words to "Hold on Loosely" by 38 Special.
You know better than to ask for "sexy pics" before you've even met me.
You want to take me out for Brazilian rodizio where you will manage to not be disgusted when I insist on eating chicken hearts, followed by gin drinks and salsa dancing, because this is currently my idea of a perfect date.
And finally, you should message me if you're NOT the douche who reported the picture of my kids that was then removed by the moderators. You know who you are.
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