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Lady_Sapphy

34 / F / bisexual / Single

Columbus, Ohio

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am Geeky, Silly, and Adventurous.

My Self-Summary

I am new here and will try to get this all filled out as soon as I can.

I never know what to put in these things.

I am a network admin and a programmer. To most both of these jobs seem very boring, but I love them in my way, and cannot think of what I would be doing for a living if it was not that. When I am not at work there is no telling what I will get into. I spent the last three years as the Ohio Roller Girl know as Living Dead Girl, but I have retired from that and looking for new adventures. I enjoy trying new things and look at life as a series of new adventures. At the same time, I can spend hours over coffee talking about philosophy. Then again sometimes it is nice just to shut down and veg out to a movie. In my down time I like to play music, and video games. Currently I think Rock Band is the best video game ever, because it combines a game with music. To me life is all about growing and learning new things.

I guess I should say something about what I am looking for.

I am not into games, and get very upset if I feel I am being played. I am looking for someone that can keep up with me, loves a new adventure, and be my best friend. I want someone who understands depth of personality and accepts that. I want someone who is a grown up and takes care of their bills and such, but at the same time can still be a kid and have fun. You don't have to be perfect. I am not looking for a knight in shinny armor. I am looking for a fun person that is looking for an equal partner in life.

I would also like to add that I am painfully shy until you get to know me. What that means is if you wait for me to make first contact, it is not going to happen. Take a risk, it might just be worth it.

What I’m doing with my life

I am a network administrator and a Programmer. I might be going to get my CCNA soon, and looking for a better job. When I am not doing that I still help out with the Ohio Roller Girls by doing video work for them. And if that is not enough, I been working on me and re centering my life.

I’m really good at

I am really good with computers. I would like to think I am a decent cook when I have someone to cook for.

The first things people usually notice about me

Is my hair. It is long and curly, and a dark blonde.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: I am an Anne Rice fan, but I don't know if I can pick a favorite.

Movies: Harry Potter is one of my guilty pleasures. I tend to stick with the Fantasy, Sci-Fi, Historical movies.

Music: I like just about anything, with the exception of Country and Blue Grass. I would have to say I am a classic rock kind of gal, even more so now that they call most of the stiff from the 80s classic rock.

Food: Yes Please!!! Yea I like food, I enjoy trying new dishes from around the world. I will admit Cheesecake is my weakness.

The six things I could never do without

1. My Son

2. Music

3. My Computer with Internet

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I spend a lot of time thinking about

How I need to get back into the SCA and mostly the Fencing, I miss stabbing people.

Also thinking I need to get back to studying my German.

How cool this site is, and why I have not got on here before now.

How to survive a zombie outbreak.

On a typical Friday night I am

Depends on the weather and what is going on in the city. I may hit a club, or I may stay home. Summer time I seem to always have much more going on.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I carry on conversations with my pets.

You should message me if

If you are adventurous and like to have fun.

DO NOT message me if you are looking for an experiment or someone to add to an existing relationship.