Would you be willing to participate in nudist activities to satisfy a partner's wants?

• Yes.
• No.

Would I be willing to participate? Possibly.
Would I be willing in order to satisfy a partner, in other words, not for myself? Possibly, but only if they were also willing to do things that only I enjoy. It's all about give and take, people!

You scored 35% introvert and 30% extrovert!

If you answered more (a)s and (b)s, you're a introvert, planner, facts person, and head person.
If you answered more (c)s and (d)s, you're extrovert, spontaneous, ideas, heart.

I always knew I was a split of innie and outie, but this just adds to the proof. Many people would say that I'm an extrovert, seeing how I deal with people one on one or in small groups, and how I take charge when I have my subs with me, but then the fact that I hate large groups, and prefer to be a hermit a lot of the time, loving my working from home, indicates a definite introvert tendency.

I saw a squirrel in a sweater today! Well, not really, but he was one of those black squirrels we have here in Calgary, and he had grey fur on his back, chest, shoulders, and upper front legs just like he was wearing a little grey fur sweater!!

If you've been paying attention to the news you can't have missed the riots in Tibet, and China's move to crush the protests. It appears that now may finally be a time to motivate China to either liberate Tibet, or loosen their grip.

Please sign this petition to the Chinese government, and let them know that we still care about their treatment of the people of Tibet.

http://www.avaaz.org/en/tibet_end_the_violence/6.php

Damn. I haven't dated in years, and when I did I was open to males or females, so I seemed to always be bombarded by boys. It's so much harder meeting women. Or maybe it's just me?

'Course, it doesn't help that everyone assumes I'm either trying to lure them into a threeway with my husband, or I'm cheating on him.

As some of you who have messaged me will know, I am rarely ever on OKC anymore. If I get an email from OKC that I have messages, I'll log in, but often it will be a month in between those, and when I log in there is a month's worth of messages.

I am about to pop over to the store for some plate staples, and then I'll be able to finish my new set of cuffs and collar. I have been wanting to change all my gear over to purple leather, but purple is hard to come by.

Recently one of my boys found me a chunk of purple leather, left over from a full ballgag head harness with blindfold that he had made for my playroom. I made a basic leather blindfold right away, and now I'll be finishing a collar, wristlets, anklets, and thigh binders. I think I might even have enough left to build a new strap-on harness. I'm trying to decide if I'll want anything else for my room with the purple, since I'll have smaller pieces left and could probably make a few things.

Perhaps while I'm at the store I'll see about a chain leash, and switch the nylon handle for a purple leather one. That might be nice...

I have a new cat, she joined the family last Thursday, so we've had her for 7 days. The day after we got her we were talking and realized we could now do 'Stuff on My Cat'. Our first thought was to put the ferrets on the cat, but she doesn't get along with them. Now we're trying to figure out what to put on her.

Any suggestions people? I need Stuff on My Cat!

This is an unpublished column from my Beautiful Bruises column at Kinkk.com. Enjoy!

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I would like to address two of the issues around areas of play often considered to be emasculating: anal play and cross-dressing. There are many reasons a man may enjoy either of these activities, sometimes both of them at once.

Many people believe that these activities are the exclusive domain of gay men. This is partially due to the misconception that anal sex is the primary method of gratification used by the gay community, as well as the notion that a cross-dresser is the same as a drag queen.

Regarding anal sex, let

I've finally begun playpiercing, and I can't believe I waited this long. It's both simple and lovely, and readily encorporates ritual - be it the submissive's giving of themselves, or giving up of stresses, worries, shame, or whatever is most needed at the time.