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52 F San Diego, CA

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Last Online
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Native American, White
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Lady in Fallbrook lives in mission valley
Hi I am Victoria
I am in San Diego working on a project and also expanding my skills through education that will I will finish spring 2015.
I am into being as healthy as I can be. I love to resistance train and would love a life partner who would participate in my journey.
I am looking for that man who can hang out around the fire pit with my family and take a fair amount of teasing. Some how I managed to raise people who I really enjoy hanging out with.
Because I spend most of my time with younger people I would also prefer a younger man.
I am most at home with black men. They like me and I like them providing they like curves and are talking care of themselves. I am being honest here it is a connection that is not about sex alone. It is a place of comfort and a peaceful connection.
In the right connection I never ever feel like an older woman, maybe because I like a man to be the man a to have the ability to lead.
I am often asked what I am looking for so here goes...
An exclusive relationship with great communication and mind blowing sex lots of laughter and mutual support in careers and hobbies. Spending more nights together than apart. Integrated family life. It is very important for me to be with a man who can make a decision and is willing to make plans and do what it takes to complete them. That would be the ultimate situation. it takes time to grow into that type of relationship. I am also open to new friends and activity partners and all the things adults enjoy : )
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working on a large project in my field of study. I am also continuing my education to include rehabilitating the chronically ill through fitness training. This would complement my practice of 25 years in the health and mental wellness field.

I am interested in day trips to the countryside and mountains. The desert holds little interest for me. I will ride horses again and that would be a fun activity. I hate to shop and errands are annoying. Now a thrift or resale shop is always a great adventure ; ).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people feel comfortable, and I try keep them laughing even at my own expense.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Let's go with my hair. : )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I stay current will many genres of music. My youth was a period of time where music changed drastically. Music focused on being innovated and I think this is the reason I continue to enjoy new music. I love to dance! And don't need a night club to do it. Love dancing in the kitchen too! I stream all my music and often listen to older R&B and also stream today's hits.
My interest in cooking has come back. I enjoy middle to far eastern food.
Anything that won't scare the hell out of me.
Books? I am more into being active these days than reading. I read online more than paper books.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Guidance and direction from God
Free agency
My relationships with my children
Good friends
Giving back
My health
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my next adventure will be and if you will be in it.
July 18. Tonight I am wondering why a man would put down other men, most directly men of his own ethnicity?
My thoughts....
No man comes from a cookie cutter.
In the professional world it reflects bad on you when you sperek of an associat or competitor in a negative way. Same goes for other men. Be nice it is always attractive to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Saturday night is my night out. It is girls night out and that should not be messed with. : )
I might just be found in Hillcrest on 4th for Chinese food at 2 am : )
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I do not date active military. I have considered it seriously and I can say this is my honest feeling. I am happy to explained my self in a private message.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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If your happy, honest and kind and enjoy the same type of person. If you have stable moods and are confidant. If you feel being on time is a valuable trait.
If you have no plans to move away from this area. If you know how to be honest and caring.
If you looking for a long term friend who might evolve into something more.

Homophobic, racially ignorant, critical, and mean men please continue on with your adventure.

I do not email with men from this site. This site works just fine for communication : )