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LadyntheCity

34 Santa Rosa, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 3
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
....My need for some privacy in this lifetime, leaves me heavily resisting posting a pic of myself...I am fine to do this selectively with individuals that warrant more than a short, superficial interaction with me..... however....

I am a loving, old fashioned, Christian, young lady. I love the country and pride myself on being a country girl that can navigate life in the big city.
I've traveled near and far and have had a beautiful past 15 years making much of my life dreams and goals come true. I am by no means ordinary and I've had a very extraordinary life. I am a true romantic at heart, believing everyone's romantic endeavors are just waiting over the horizon, however I may not be as optimistic about my own. I aim to remain grounded and level headed...sometimes...

I'm proudly old-fashioned in some ways, be it I can be a little stubborn or resistant to things like online dating, posting pics of myself anywhere or airing my every thought and deed on Facebook, these things still don't feel natural to me and therefore I retreat outside of those/these new norms. Connection and Community do not begin or end for me via mass social media...but still I give this a try.
I want to really believe in OKC, but I am working to take it more lightly or least meet a few good friends to hang out with sometimes.
I one day look forward to transitioning from life as a single lady, and beginning life with a very extraordinary gentleman at my side, at the moment I am in no rush or desperate for anyone... I find that I like me and treat me very, very well, yet also in that same breath, I do love to love someone and co-accept another's gifts, viewpoint and their love. Dare I say that life does get Lonely sometimes...yes, I said the other "L" word that we don't talk enough of in this country.

I recently adopted a baby girl lab puppy and have put her on a little pedestal...and love coming home to such a lil' cutie pie!
This new little pup gives me a chance to re-witness how I view love, how I receive it, react to and give love.
Future Mr. husband and future children will have a beautiful and very rich life with me, and that is the only thing I can truly attest to and toot my horn for....
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am enjoying life again after a graduate program. I've spent the last 3 1/2 years in a shell studying around the clock for work as a child and family counselor. I've had an extensive career in Theatre, modeling and teaching. I love children and most of my work caters to them.
I'm enjoying taking my life a bit out of the fast lane and finding an appropriate pace for everything that makes me happy and reflective. I've dedicated this year to getting reconnected with my guitar, my friends, family, road tripping, camping, and the many DIY projects that I enjoy. I like to be silly and don't mind getting my hands dirty...hence I will be building an outdoor garden, and a cute little dog house for my puppy amongst other things this summer.
I imagine my life in a cozy, adventure of twists and turns with my dog and family at my side. I am a teacher, a counselor, a model, a lover, and an artist to make all of these work together.
I am meant to love people, children and life. I see adoption in my near future if I do not have a suitable partner by my side to have children of my own.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Looking hot in a big pick-up truck
being a sucker to infomercials
driving the wrong way down one way streets in SF
staying in shape
restoring things
making people smile/laugh
cheffing it up in the kitchen
applying makeup without a mirror
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. My dimples. My generous nature. My ability to juggle many things at once. How often I walk my dog.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I cannot give this category the time it needs!
I hold the Bible in the most respect though it can be a challenge to read straight through...
I have a summer reading list (finally again) and will leap my way through a handful of them as I can.
I have too many books to name and music is also the same.

I treat myself to Japanese food when I am really feeling special or need to come down from a long day and unwind, but I love it all.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(besides, God, family, water, sunshine, air)

Prayer
Friends
Praise and Worship services
A well stocked frig/pantry
Heat
Hugs
Mascara
Goals/Motivation
Windows
Laughter
Piles of warm, fluffy, clean blankets
Road trips
Mountains
Good Socks
Orange Juice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Adoption
My deceased father
My brillant young client children
Building things
My family
My next trip to the grocery store
My life over the next few years specifically
Tiny Houses
How to find new ways to live, be happy and feel I am living and doing my best work
How often men on OkC need to see a pic of me before they would begin to entertain me
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Commuting from SF to Santa Rosa, taking a long walk towards home while gathering more energy before meeting my happy, hyper puppy at the front door.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My personal summary sounds snotty, and uptight to me but that, I am not in person.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like me... don't mind writing in detail about yourself...you value my time.... are respectful...you are mature, honest, easy going, marriage minded, and it would/could be even more wonderful if you're a strong, Christian man.