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LadyntheCity

35 San Rafael, CA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:47am
Orientation
Straight
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a nice looking young lady but I am so camera shy and hence not yet posted a pic. I hope that doesn't scare you off, and if it does then it's a prob. not a good fit.

However, I am a loving, old fashioned, Christian, southern gal that's usually smiling and enjoying life. I love the country and pride myself on being a country girl that can navigate life in the big city.

I've traveled near and far and have lived many dreams, specifically living abroad in Japan and Canada for 3 years.

I am by no means ordinary and I've had a very extraordinary life!!! I've hiked some of the biggest mountains and conquered challenges and defeats. I am a true romantic at heart and spend a lot of time mending relationships and broken spirits on a regular as a career.

I'm proudly old-fashioned in some ways, be it as I can be a little stubborn or resistant to things like online dating, posting pics of myself .... I prefer a good old in person, face to face interaction. I am full of songs, laughter and story and listening ears. I'm an old soul.

I one day look forward to being married to an extraordinary gentleman. Building a friendship could be the best start. I have dog a 16 month old girl, she keeps me full of reckless energy and adventure.

* This short profile cannot begin to describe and define the contours and depth of my life, world and dreams and perhaps your interest would be peaked in some little detail* to get to know me and learn more if/when time is right.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am enjoying life again after an intense graduate program. I've spent the last 3 1/2 years in a shell studying around the clock for work as a Child and Family Therapist. I've had an extensive career in theatre, fashion modeling, teaching and directing plays. I love children and most of my work caters to them.

I'm enjoying taking my life a bit out of the fast lane and finding an appropriate pace for everything that makes me happy and reflective. I've dedicated this year to getting reconnected with my guitar, my friends, family, road tripping, camping, and the many DIY projects that I enjoy. I like to be silly and don't mind getting my hands dirty...hence I will be building an outdoor garden, and a cute little dog house for my puppy amongst other things this summer.

I constantly read and love planning trips and adventures. Me and the road are soul friends, and I itch to explore. I recently went to the Bahamas in May with my family.

I love to be of service. I love people and life. I have always considered adopting a child (if that's in God's plans) in my future and think all children deserve and must have important parents and active leaders/ role models in their lives.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a sucker for infomercials
Looking hot my big Ford F250
driving the wrong way down one way streets in SF
applying makeup without a mirror
Chefing it up in the kitchen
Baby talking the dog (she loves it!)
Making cold places warm and inviting
Loving my friends
Being passionate for a cause
Making babies smile
staying in shape
restoring things
making people smile/laugh
Staying inspired
Growing and learning (my head stays in books and my body present in workshops/meetings)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. My deep dimples (from my mom). My generous nature. My ability to juggle many things at once. My humor, positive attitude. How often I walk my dog/ the way my dog often walks me. My faith in GOD! My voice, I sing a lot especially when I believe no one's listening.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love food! I'm a huge Foodie!!!
Jamaican, Japanese, Soul Food, Cajun, French, South East Asian, Food Trucks! Cooking Shows!

I live to travel and be inspired.
Travel Goals: I want to do an around the world flight, where I visit each continent.
Want to go back to the Grand Canyon!!!

I love Jazz and Christmas Music! I shake my butt to Classical music while cleaning, and love it as background inspiration while doing anything thoughtful.
Of course music from the 80's, Classic R &B, Soul! 80's Pop Rock, Gospel are in my bones!
I love much music and I most enjoy a creative and down to earth artist .

Old sitcom's, certain commercials from my childhood in FL.
I love gospel concerts and I have a bucket list of artists I hope to see LIVE, especially the still Living Legends.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(besides, God, family, food, water, sunshine, air)

Prayer
Masala Chai (I even make my own now)
Travel
Friends
Mascara
Ice
A well stocked frig/pantry
Praise and Worship services
Other Languages and Cultures of people
Heat
Fruit
Hugs
Goals/Motivation
Windows
Laughter
Piles of warm, fluffy blankets
Road trips
Mountains
Good Socks
Orange Juice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Adoption
My deceased father
My brillant young clients
Building things (dog houses, green houses, businesses)
My family
My next trip to the grocery store
My life over the next few years specifically
Tiny Houses
finding new ways to live, be happy and feel I am doing my best work
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Stopping by favorite Japanese Restaurant
Commuting from SF to Marin County.
Karaoke or Jazz on the Lake
Cuddling with puppy
Catching up with long-distance family and friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am SO camera shy, hence no pic yet...but willing to share one privately.

At times, I require extensive periods of time alone. It's how Iam able to rejoin the world so full of life and energy.

I don't believe in wasting your time and having time wasted. I am a woman with a huge heart, a smile that tells so many stories of loss and blessings. I know life's light and the shadows either from my own or from those of the clients I serve...and through it all, I live for all the beauty and gifts of opportunities presented to me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're a ready to be in something special (friend ship, long term relationship)...you have your basic life foundation together, you are respectful .... loving, giving, strong, honest, know who you are and what you want in life....
* Christian, marriage guided, respecting man with a big heart* are most welcomed!...AND if you can accept a picture of me after an initial introduction and genuine conversation then, do say hello and a bit more.