I should say upfront that I'm a male to female transsexual, which means that I was born male but am mentally female. I've been on hormones for over 7 years now, and aside from not yet having The Operation I think I've made the transition quite nicely. Feel free to ask if you're curious but I'm not going to go into it more here (it's so not a defining feature of who I am).
Everything else I might write about myself is largely subject to change without notice. But that's okay, I'll do it anyway!
I can be pretty arrogant and full of myself at times, but usually I'm a pretty nice person. I love to laugh and have a good time. Sometimes I can be kinda submissive... depends on my mood, and who I'm with. I used to try to figure out which of my many sides is my real personality, but I've come to think they're all me. I refuse to pick!
I'm obsessed with novelty, new ideas, activities, and the likes hold my fascination so long as they're new. Then I get bored, which I do easily enough, and move on to The Next Big Thing.
I am, as a whole, completely over the top in most of the possible ways, but I'm not a drama queen. I dislike strife and conflict, especially of the interpersonal sort. Rather, I exist in the moment, letting my life flow more or less of its own accord, and for whatever reason it likes to flow rather turbulently. This can be a lot of fun, but it can also kinda suck. Planning ahead is both necessary and anathema.
It's probably not too hard to tell, but I'm something of a goth. Not in the lame pretentious way, and I'm not super-goth or anything extreme, it's just the look and community which I fit best with. I think graveyard picnics are romantic, that the world looks better at night, and I know a lot of dead baby jokes. Naturally I rather like goth/industrial music and go out clubbing as often as I can.
Oh, and drugs are fun. If you disagree, that's your problem, but I like to party. Life is about having as much fun as possible, and like I said before, I live in the moment. The past is quickly forgotten, the future is vague and unpredictable, the present is all we have.
I'm not really looking for "just sex" relationships at this time. I'm not totally opposed to the idea, but I'm more interested in friends and long-term relationship prospects. Besides, casual sex is better with friends than strangers... at least, usually. There are exceptions.
Oh, and I'm also a bit of a geek. Shh, it's a secret!
I am Crazy, Brilliant, and Feline