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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19-65
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Nov 19
Black, Native American, White
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Atheism and laughing about it
Dropped out of Two-year college
Doesn’t want kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a sex activist and educator who has a full poly plate, but knows that there are always other great people to meet and get to know. I read voraciously, Science Fiction primarily. I love good food, fine wine and odd movies like Grindhouse and Delicatessen.

I'm pretty full up in my polycule and I'm not actively looking for new partners and I'm always open to new friendships. Please do not send me a message that consists of one word or sentence. If you can't write a paragraph I don't want to hear from you.

I am bodacious, political, and polyamorous
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm semi-retired. I was the Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture (formerly The Wet Spot.) and the Foundation for Sex Positive Culture. I am currently the Development Director for the Center. My personal mission statement is to transform sexuality, replacing shame with joy. I'm also writing a book on relationships, specifically how to break up and remain friends. I also do relationship and sexuality coaching. I'm very busy and love it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at making people laugh and public speaking. I'm also very good at my job.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my lips, my smile, my big ass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite book of all times is Alice in Wonderland and Alice Through the Looking Glass. My favorite character is Cirocco Jones (if you know the books she's from you'll know my other favorite books.) Auntie Mame (the original with Rosalind Russell) is my favorite movie. Any music by Etta James turns me on, but probably my favorite song is "Have You Seen Her?" by the Chi-Lites. And there isn't much food I don't like, however Cuban is probably my favorite ethnic food. My total comfort food meal is Campbell's Chicken Noodle Soup, Baloney on white bread, with butter and Ruffle Potato Chips (in the sandwich).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good book, dark chocolate, my stuffed pig, my computer, hemp rope and my friends and lovers (do people count as things?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about transforming the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is nothing typical about any of my nights. Sometimes I'm beating on my favorite guy other night's I'm going to a play.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
While most people think I'm heavy into BDSM (which is true) I sometimes like "vanilla" (well, maybe butterscotch)
You should message me if
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you want to know more about me or if you own a red truck (I'm still waiting for the guy in the red truck)

Also note that I seldom IM and don't usually have it even on, so IMing me will usually not get a response.