I'm a sex activist and educator who has a full poly plate, but knows that there are always other great people to meet and get to know. I read voraciously, Science Fiction primarily. I love good food, fine wine and odd movies like Grindhouse and Delicatessen.

I'm recently in a new primary relationship and I'm not actively looking for new partners and I'm always open to new friendships

I am bodacious, political, and polyamorous

Currently, I'm dealing with a summer of chemo, so my availability to meet new people is pretty much nil. After July who knows. :)

I'm the Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture (formerly The Wet Spot.) My personal mission statement is to transform sexuality, replacing shame with joy. I'm also writing a book on relationships, specifically how to break up and remain friends. I also do relationship and sexuality coaching. I'm very busy and love it.

I've recently been appointed to the Seattle Commission for Sexual Minorities. I'm a Commish!

I'm really good at making people laugh and public speaking. I'm also very good at my job.

My eyes, my lips, my smile, my big ass.

My favorite book of all times is Alice in Wonderland and Alice Through the Looking Glass. My favorite character is Cirocco Jones (if you know the books she's from you'll know my other favorite books.) Auntie Mame (the original with Rosalind Russell) is my favorite movie. Any music by Etta James turns me on, but probably my favorite song is "Have You Seen Her?" by the Chi-Lites. And there isn't much food I don't like, however Cuban is probably my favorite ethnic food. My total comfort food meal is Campbell's Chicken Noodle Soup, Baloney on white bread, with butter and Ruffle Potato Chips (in the sandwich).

A good book, dark chocolate, my stuffed pig, my computer, hemp rope and my friends and lovers (do people count as things?)

I spend a lot of time thinking about sex.

At the Center working and/or playing or going to dinner with Damen and Janice, two of my best friends.

While most people think I'm heavy into BDSM (which is true) I sometimes like "vanilla" (well, maybe butterscotch)

you want to know more about me or if you own a red truck (I'm still waiting for the guy in the red truck)

Also note that I seldom IM and don't usually have it even on, so IMing me will usually not get a response.