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37 • Chicago, IL • Cis Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–46
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Online now!
- 6′ 3″ (1.91m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Masters program
- Open relationship
- Mostly monogamous
- Has a kid
- Has dogs
- English, German
Reading people. Making rum cake. Putting my foot in my mouth. Making people feel like they are the only one in the room. Falling inappropriately in love with the wrong people. Wearing my emotions on my sleeve. Appreciating theater - especially when in involves my talented and lovely wife.
I read voraciously. My Kindle is my best friend. I'm indiscriminate and insatiably curious, which makes it hard to pick favorites. Here are the books I've read in the last thirty days:
The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference, Predictive Analytics: The Power to Predict Who Will Click, Buy, Lie, or Die, Rework, Warbreaker, Thank You for Smoking, The Four Hour Body.
Even more recently: Screw the Roses, Send Thorns. I also recently read Snow Crash. Also, these days, anything Dr. Seuss gets a lot of play in my house.
Also, even if you aren't poly or open, everyone should read Sex Before Dawn and the Ethical Slut.
I'm trying to need less these days.
But mostly Battle Star Galactica and what it would be like to sex a cylon.
Also, you are not laid back, so stop typing it.
Watching history porn - The Borgias, The Tudors, Deadwood, Rome, Battlestar Galactica...
You want to visit a dungeon.
You value sincerity.
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