I'll keep it high-level since Textlation* is at pandemic levels. The rest we can do in person.
None of us is smarter than all of us...
I have purpose, a big heart (and personality**), possess humility (and wit) and remain true to what I seek (it's important to me you seek similar):
The cheese to my (or your) macaroni.
A real and deep connection.
I grew up in a large and modest catholic family in the Midwest (Indianapolis). I flew the coop a long time ago and still always prioritize several visits back each year to hang with framily (family and friends); they're my roots and foundation (I’m lucky: get 8plus weeks of vacation and can work remote).
The path from Indy: Bloomington --> Helsinki --> Charlotte --> Indy --> Chicago --> San Francisco. Been in SF since 2000. Have spent a lot of time in New Orleans and Seattle too. They all hold special places in my heart.