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39 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 31–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:23pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I'll keep it high-level since Textlation* is at pandemic levels. The rest we can do in person.

None of us is smarter than all of us...

I have purpose, a big heart (and personality**), possess humility (and wit) and remain true to what I seek (it's important to me you seek similar):
Stimulating conversations.
The cheese to my (or your) macaroni.
A real and deep connection.

I grew up in a large and modest catholic family in the Midwest (Indianapolis). I flew the coop a long time ago and still always prioritize several visits back each year to hang with framily (family and friends); they're my roots and foundation (I’m lucky: get 8plus weeks of vacation and can work remote).

The path from Indy: Bloomington --> Helsinki --> Charlotte --> Indy --> Chicago --> San Francisco. Been in SF since 2000. Have spent a lot of time in New Orleans and Seattle too. They all hold special places in my heart.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My time is mostly consumed “working to live” (UX – UI – Design - Data) and “living to experience” by:

- Appreciating cultures home and abroad.
- Urban hikes and bike rides.
- Thoughts like “stars are just like us?”***
- Live shows (Les Bon Temps Roule!).
- Mother Nature in all her glory: rivers, lakes, oceans, mountains, forests, snow and sand.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Interacting with people, being friendly and social to most everyone (I do have my limits). Prefer being connected to the energy of life over the ever-increasing focus on digital lives.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm told "the people" appreciate my “welcoming energy."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Here's a snippet...

I like cooking: homemade popcorn in pan; ancient family lasagna recipe; Korean noodle wraps. Typical fare. It's way more fun cooking for 2.

Reading? Always something in the rotation. Currently: Game of Thrones, Book 5. Some all time favs: Shogun Saga. Trinity. The Alchemist. Dracula. Into Thin Air. Shadow Divers. Devil in a White City.

Music? Love it so and see a ton live music. The genres run the gamut: Hip Hop (87-97 - Think Tribe Called Quest), Blues, Rock, Alt Rock 80-90s (Pearl Jam'esque), House, Breaks, Bluegrass, NOLA Brass-Hop.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(of equal import):
1. Possibilities.
2. Friendship.
3. Expression.
4. Creativity.
5. Hope.
6. Touch.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Remembering the past, staying present in the moment and thinking (and embracing) the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing something typical; you know, like, typical things people do who live in San Francisco.
You should message me if
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Because something resonates...

Clarifications from the author:

*Textlation (tekst-ley-shuhn): the misinterpretation of text communication where playfulness and humor are lost in translation due to lack of tone, inflection, facial expressions and-or eye brow raises of the author.

**According to the Big 5 personality test:
Open-minded: curious, original and complex;
Conscientiousness: reliable, organized, and disciplined;
Extroverted: friendly, fun loving and sociable;
Agreeable: sympathetic, forgiving and courteous;
Non-neurotic: calm, relaxed and secure.

***Stars are just like us!
They drink coffee, go to the park, fly on airplanes and eat food? Whew! I always wondered. I love playful banter which has led me to working on creating the world's first sarcasm font. It’s gonna be huge. HUGE I say :-P