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Lake_Christo

40 San Francisco, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 31–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Technology
Income
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi.

I'll keep it high-level since Textlation* is at pandemic levels. The rest we can do in person.

I have a big heart, possess humility (and wit), am playful and remain true to what I seek:
Intrigue.
Romance.
Adventure.
Knowledge.
Stimulating conversations.
The cheese to my (or your) macaroni.

I flew the coop (Midwest - Indianapolis) a long time ago. The journey so far: Bloomington --> Helsinki --> Charlotte --> Indy --> Chicago --> San Francisco. Been in SF since 2000. Have spent a lot of time in New Orleans and Seattle too. Have traveled all over the world. Special places in my heart and memory, they all hold. Yodo and shi.....
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living the life I want:

- Marketing Exec: UX – Design - Data - Mngmt
- Appreciating cultures home and abroad.
- Urban hikes and bike rides.
- Random thoughts: “stars ARE just like us?”**
- Seeing live shows (Les Bon Temps Roule!).
- Hanging in Mother Nature: rivers, lakes, oceans, mountains, forests, snow and sand - oh my!
- Searching for my "cheese"
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Interacting with people and being friendly.

Not being part of the digital walking dead.

Being susceptible to flattery.

Jumping into bodies of water.

Decompressing and disconnecting from the grid.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm told "the people" appreciate my welcoming personality.***
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like cooking: homemade popcorn in pan; ancient family lasagna recipe; Korean noodle wraps; pizza from scratch.

Always something in the reading rotation. Some all time favs: Shogun Saga. Count of Monte Cristo. Game of Thrones. The Alchemist. Dracula. Into Thin Air. Shadow Divers. Devil in a White City.

Love music and see a ton of it live. The genres run the gamut: Hip Hop (87-97 - Think Tribe Called Quest), Blues, Rock, Alt Rock 80-90s (Pearl Jam'esque), indie rock, House, Breaks, Down-tempo, Bluegrass, NOLA Brass-Hop.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Possibilities.
2. Friendship.
3. Expression.
4. Creativity.
5. Hope.
6. Touch.

Not.
In.
That.
Order.
Per se.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Remembering the past, staying present in the moment and embracing the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing something typical; you know, like, typical things people do who live in San Francisco.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You made it to this section!

You'll never want my jeans skinnier than yours unless, of course, it's Halloween.

You agree it is all about meeting up to explore our chemistry.

Because something resonates...

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Clarifications from zee author:

*Textlation (tekst-ley-shuhn): the misinterpretation of text communication where playfulness and humor are lost in translation due to lack of tone, inflection, facial expressions, eye brow raises and - or Dr. evil style pinky raises by the author.

**Stars are just like us!
They drink coffee, go to the park, fly on airplanes and eat food? Whew! I always wondered. I love playful banter which has led me to working on creating the world's first sarcasm font. It’s gonna be huge. HUGE I say :-P

***According to studies, my personality is:
Open-minded: curious, original and complex;
Conscientiousness: reliable and disciplined;
Extroverted: friendly, fun loving and sociable;
Agreeable: sympathetic, forgiving and courteous;
Non-neurotic: calm, relaxed and secure.