Honesty, and communication are the key factors in any relationship. Shouldn't have to define these for you as they are the strongest of foundations. Without either, you have simply made another acquaintance. If your into games, don't bother. However, if you're into fun, exciting, and possibly even adventurous company, with a strong minded, stable, and fun-loving individual with a large heart, feel free to shoot me a massage.
While wielding a large heart, I remain ever mindful of negative situations that may bring pain or sadness. You see, care comes from many places, but not easily displayed by all. This being said, it takes little effort to care for someone, but a great deal to show that care. When you feel you may have found that person, or even simply want to take that leap of faith and find out if they could complete you, be confident in knowing those values are held in high regard here.
Something I have learned about this online dating, there are a great many people who hover around and say nothing. To these individuals, free yourself of fear and insecurities, for they will lead nowhere. Be true to yourself, but open and outgoing. That alone will help you to find someone special.