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42 M Cape Town, South Africa

My Details

Last Online
Jul 27
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, Afrikaans

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My self-summary
I am loving life back in Cape Town having spent a few cool months in Santiago last year, and way too much time in Jhb before that. Loving the mountain, the on the promenade...all pretty damn awesome.
What I’m doing with my life
Assisting some friends who are saints, and set such a fine example it is impossible not to be inspired.

Looking for and researching entrepreneurial ideas and investments, making them reality...taking advantage of all the awesome outdoor opportunities my country offers that I/we put off till 'tomorrow'
I’m really good at
Being an ass
Providing a great sounding board and semi amateur shrink/life coach - but taking the piss when lightening up is needed.
Seeing both side of the coin...this is not always such a blessing but I use it where it is.
Challenging the accepted, trying new ways of doing things. Sometimes this has me running really well despite doing much less training than my mates, sometimes it has me producing the most hectic failures in the kitchen. I cook pretty well, although my presentation needs work. I can't bake for bake you have to follow instructions. Not my forte. Also you have to repeat these instructions exactly the same way the next time. Repetition not a forte either. I will happily risk a disaster in the name of creativity. I can't wash up...back problems I promise
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to write and to read. Am a fan of investigative journalism and random works of non-fiction, good novels and art house movies - as well as alternative rock...Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, INXS, Live, Nude Girls etc. and loving the Black Hotels more recently.
The six things I could never do without
I realised in South America that I need social interaction more than I thought I do.
Linked to the above, my friends and is great but it isn't the same
My running shoes and the great outdoors to run in them
Something to dream about making into a reality
Women. I don't mean this in a dorky I am so macho way. But the rest of life is so much more tangible and rewarding when there is someone that interests and excites you in it, or at least sneaking in from the horizon
Music, movies, books...that move me, make my heart swell, make me dream and want to make those dreams real
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lank shit...I daydream and conceptualise, and analyse at Olympian levels
On a typical Friday night I am
A few late pm beers, and then dinner if there is someone interesting to join
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are up for living life...outdoors stuff on the mountain and sea, sundowners, movies and quaint/interesting restaurants, trying out healthy food ideas...looking for weekends away and road trips in the future.