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Lance_J_Gosnell

31 / M / bisexual / Single

Conway, Arkansas

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6' 0" (1.82m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
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Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am an atypical, avant-garde, and equivocal methodist.

My Self-Summary

Like many boys of the south I grew up in Arkansas where I studied Public Relations and Sociology at the University of Central Arkansas where there I also participated heavily in the progressive movement for change in the areas of social justice covering a variety of issues.

What I’m doing with my life

Outside of being an all around activist, I have lived in and worked at California's Yosemite National Park where I discovered a deeper meaning to what it means to be a Christian. However, life is still difficult and since April of 2009, I have returned to Arkansas where I currently work as a security guard.

I’m really good at

What can I say but suggest that I am one of those individuals who knows a little about a lot and a lot about everything.

The first things people usually notice about me

I wear glasses. LOL "What kind of question is this?"

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite Music: Dave Matthews, Nine Inch Nails, Marilyn Manson, Kenny Rogers, Shawn Mullins, Henry Rollins, Rage Against the Machine, Jars of Clay, Garth Brooks, Randy Travis, Pearl Jam, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Eric Clapton, B.B. King

Favorite TV Shows: The Riches, Criss Angel Mind Freak, Hardball, Myth Busters, Family Ties, Hogans Hero's, God, The Devil, & Bob; Real Time with Bill Maher

Favorite Movies: Prozac Nation, Fast Food Nation, Pump up the Volume, Mr. Smith Goes to Washington, Hackers, Primary Colors, Man of the Year, Blair Witch 2: Book of Shadows, The Maddening, North by Northwest, My Fellow Americans, The Late Shift, Last House on the Left, The Devil's Rejects, Paradise Lost "The Child Murders at Robin Hood Hills"

Favorite Books: 1984, Monkey, The Devil's Knot, All that lives, Plan of Attack, Necronomicon, Twilight of the Idols & the Anti-Christ

The six things I could never do without

food, water, shelter, sex, security, oh and did I mention SEX.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to reconcile the past by fixing the future through present day actions.

On a typical Friday night I am

On a typical Friday night I can be found with my friends while I challenge myself to a contest of seeing how many beers I can drink in one setting. Yet, I am not an alcoholic.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

If there were ever such a thing, don't you think I would rather tell you in person. Why would I think this? Maybe it's because I don't want to air all my personal life on the net.

You should message me if

Over the years this section has changed and as I attempt to re-write it once again I am left with a single thought that suggest that just maybe if you message me maybe because in your mind you have a good reason and if I reply then that same logic will apply to me.