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31 M London, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Apr 14
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats

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My self-summary
1. Hi, I'm Lap.

2. I'm a fluffy leftie who thinks and talks about getting involved in making the world a better place. Still making the same old excuses not to though.

3. When I was in school I was often seen as a loner and a bit weird, two things that I were oddly proud of. I've always been comfortable with my own company and when others wouldn't or couldn't do things that I wanted to do I went ahead and did it anyway. It's what made me go to the cinema by myself when I was 15. For many years I surprised that this was considered an weird thing to do. Since I was 11 I rode public transport aimlessly around London and so I know the city pretty well. I miss hopping on and off Routemasters whenever I please. I cycle around everywhere now, feeling the wind in my hair and smog up my nose.

4. A digestible list of things I like: cinemas, bicycles, trains, tea, talking politics and philosophy and films, video games, parks, filtering through traffic, lie-ins.

5. Out of this list, number 1 is probably the most accurate.
What I’m doing with my life
I like mentally rewriting bad film and TV writing. Should probably write a spec script for something.

Going to the cinema.

Thinking about starting my own city. I put this squarely down to SimCity.

I also drive trains for the Tube and study Philosophy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm quiet. I am horrendously polite.
Sometimes, though, I get the impression that people think I'm rude. I don't think I am, but it's not really for me to say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Films: This list could go on forever because I can talk about films forever. Ask me and we can talk about it :)
But just to give you an idea of what I like, I like films staring/written/directed by Woody Allen, Charlie Kaufman, Wong Kar-Wai, Bong Joon-Ho, the Coens, Julie Delpy, Charlie Chaplin, Buster Keaton, and Wes Anderson.

Books: here's a deliberately tiny selection (others titles just aren't long enough) -
- Hard Boiled Wonderland and the End of the World (Murakami)
- The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time (Haddon)
I also read a lot of The Idler magazine.

TV: Adam Curtis Documentaries. The Thick Of It. Other UK and US shows.
I also feel inferior watching University Challenge and shouting the wrong answers to Only Connect.

Music: I quite like Jon Brion, Daft Punk, Air, Fiona Apple, Beck, Elliot Smith's version of 'Because', The Ukulele Orchestra of Great Britain, Flight of the Conchords, and Garfunkel and Oates.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The social and moral ideas of human relationships.
Mortality - I will die.
The thin line between cruelty and honesty.
On a typical Friday night I am
Cursing that I work really early on Saturday mornings.
I go to Critical Mass every month - that's a good time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was a kid I wanted to be a spy, like James Bond.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you think Ryan Gosling is out of your league.