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53 Menlo Park, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 42–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 5
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from med school
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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I would love to find a guy who I could go anywhere and do practically anything with and share the best parts of life in a fun and loving relationship. I have great friends, and have a lot of fun. This year was my 3rd Burning Man adventure. So much beauty and energy to see and feel and that inspired me to learn how to spin fire! (Pics in album). Carpe diem! There is so much more to learn about and enjoy - My perspective is unique, a bit quirky, expressive and somewhat irreverent. It’s easy to make me happy with a light touch, a sly smile from across the room, sharing a private joke.

I’m looking for a man to inspire and who will inspire me. I am very fit, active and will go dancing, running, hiking, biking, water or snow skiing, camping, climbing, working up a sweat! Let's share adventures! Or raid tombs! I enjoy a good joke and irony is not lost on me. I admire a man who can make me laugh, doesn’t mind going dancing sometimes, and can tell me when he needs his space.

I’ve had some amazing experiences and have formed deep relationships with people through school, medicine, travel, love. All these have contributed to the person I am today. I have learned that some people pass through our lives for a season to teach us lessons that could never be learned if they stayed. It's all good.

I want to continuously grow as a person with a strong man by my side to grow with me. I would be happiest with an intelligent, sexy, educated, romantic, attractive and present man, who I can respect, admire and adore. Take me dancing, make me laugh! Let me enjoy your deep masculinity, let's create a wildly romantic, open and honest relationship. Tell me the truth, and I will make you feel like a king!
What I’m doing with my life
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I take time to tap into my creativity, dabbled in oil painting, took piano lessons, learned to spin fire (poi dancing). Most recently, I have taken up a drawing class.
I will try most anything at least once and enjoy discovering new places.. am amazingly adaptable.
I really love my job, I'm a pulmonologist for children. It's a lot of work, sometimes long and late hours, but I always try to maintain balance between work and social life. Work hard, play hard is my motto.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seizing the day, enjoying the moment, massages, I make a killer gumbo.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My crystal blue eyes, that my hair color matches my eyes (you'll just have to meet me to see it!) my smile, energy and style.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite books: Infinite Jest and all of David Foster Wallace's works. The Life of Pi. The Book Thief.
Harper's Monthly, The Nation, and The Economist.
Currently reading about 5 different books.
Some movies/TV off the top of my head: Fargo, No Country for Old Men, True Detective, Homeland, The Killing

I enjoy the luxuries of sleeping in, relaxing with a great book, and going out to discover new restaurants - my favorite is Waterbar. Best oysters around and great atmosphere and awesome view of the Bay Lights!

I enjoy dancing, both participating in and going to watch performances: hip hop and modern or contemporary dance. Those athletes amaze me. Swing is my favorite partner dancing style, though ballroom and salsa are really pretty great.

I love music! Rock and alternative (new and 'classic' - whatever that means - it's still the best kind!), but also have an eclectic collection of electronica, some glitch, hip hop, pop, jazz (Miles and Coltrane), classical, etc.

All food is great, if you ask me, as long as it's cooked with innovation, intention, and flare!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Creativity, Gumbo, Inspiration, connecting, love, independence, laughter and spontaneity! I appreciate giving and receiving affection and attention, I’m all about sensuality, and use all 5 senses liberally!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All kinds of things... politics, current events, my next tomb raid, my patients, how to be present and thoughtful, how to bring a smile to my friends' faces, how I would like to meet an honest professional man who has a sense of humor and appreciates the wild and crazy things life has to offer and knows what he really wants.
I also wonder just who can fix my ice maker.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking Perfect Manhattans somewhere new. I have been introduced to some really delicious rye whiskey - High West my current favorite. Looking for a dance partner!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hhm, well, my age is there at the top of the page! That's as private and real as I am going to get in public!
You should message me if
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If you think we might be a fit, I’d love to hear from you. Write me an email, and include a couple of sentences about your experiences, and tell me about the real you. Tell me about something you are terrible at! Maybe explain your worst first blind date experience! I’d rather hear who you really are, and not what you think I might want to hear. ;)
Let's share some happiness, and see what the future might bring.