Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm affectionate, spontaneous, restless, compassionate,
adventurous, outgoing, easily distracted, sensitive, incessantly
positive, easily inspired, occasionally insecure, tirelessly
self-analyzing, and usually well-intentioned. I love playing the
guitar and making birthday cakes, but I'm not particularly good at
either of those things. I like hugs, presents, and cashew nuts. I
write songs for my favourite people and I never kill spiders.
I'm very independent and not looking for someone to take care of
me. Being jealous, possessive, clingy or bossy is the fastest way
to get rid of me. I struggle with being given advice that I didn't
ask for, or being told how I should or shouldn't feel.
My single biggest turn-on, hands down, is interesting,
thought-provoking, open-minded intelligent conversation. I don't
mean aggressive arguments or an obsession with proving you're
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After 13 years of adventures abroad and an epiphany at an ayahuasca
community in the middle of the Amazon, I have hung up my rucksack
to do some adult-type things. I've spent the past few years
studying holistic counselling, hypnotherapy, dreamwork, mindfulness
and tantra, and I now have my own practice as a holistic
hypnotherapist. I also work sporadically and part time for an
international language school designing study materials.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the positive side, finding meaning in the difficulties,
making salad, analyzing your dreams, and hugging. I have
particularly good English, and never use an apostrophe in a plural.
I also have pretty spectacular mental arithmetic.
I was told by a friend that my profile reflects who I am perfectly,
so turns out I'm really good at writing online dating profiles too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a hugger! I do try to remember to get consent before wrapping
myself around you, but if I like you, you'll clearly see my
enthusiasm for physical affection.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love a good inspiring uplifting mind-expanding spiritual read,
documentaries about nutrition and health, anything about healing,
psychology, dreams, the subconscious mind, jazz, blues, funk, soul,
bossa nova, raw veggie organic yummy salads the odd greasy burger
from LOTF, a glass of shiraz or pink bubbles on special
I don't own or watch TV, although I have the odd program I download
when I have time, usually some twisted comedy. I don't watch a lot
of movies, but I tend towards anything I can't pick the ending of
in the first 10 minutes. I have an issue with cheesy endings, or
anything involving Adam Sandler.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hugs, kisses, and physical affection
Hope and meaning
A Creative Outlet
Freedom and my independence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a wonderful amazing unconditionally-loving shiny goddess
with no impure selfish thoughts. What I want 'home' to look like.
What I want 'work' to look like. How grateful I am for the amazing
life I have.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Possibly at a party, a chant, a conscious dance event or a workshop
of some description. Sometimes at home with a book and a cup of
tea, and sometimes cuffed to someone's balcony and being
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once weighed more than 100kg ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interesting, you're kind, you're positive, and you've
actually read my profile. If you send me a standard copy paste
message, you will receive either sarcasm, constructive advice, or
nothing at all from me.
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