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38 Melbourne, Australia Cis Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:44am
Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual, Pansexual
Asian, Middle Eastern, Black, Native American, Indian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Dropped out of Space camp
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm affectionate, spontaneous, restless, compassionate, adventurous, outgoing, easily distracted, sensitive, incessantly positive, easily inspired, occasionally insecure, tirelessly self-analyzing, and usually well-intentioned. I love playing the guitar and making birthday cakes, but I'm not particularly good at either of those things. I like hugs, presents, and cashew nuts. I write songs for my favourite people and I never kill spiders.

I'm very independent and not looking for someone to take care of me. Being jealous, possessive, clingy or bossy is the fastest way to get rid of me. I struggle with being given advice that I didn't ask for, or being told how I should or shouldn't feel.

I am ethically non-monogamous, heavy on the ethical. I love love, I love relationships, I love caring, sharing, cuddling, spoiling, crying, laughing, talking, and all the facets of honest human communication. I love intimacy, connection, support, and growing together. I don't enjoy relationship hierarchies. Importantly, I love freedom within my relationships. I am not afraid of relationships or commitment, because the kind of relationships I have are not scary or constricting. If you're afraid of them, maybe we have different ideas about what they look like. I'm not interested in casual sex or meaningless hooking up, so if that's what you're after, you can probably stop reading here.

My single biggest turn-on, hands down, is interesting, thought-provoking, open-minded intelligent conversation. I don't mean aggressive arguments or an obsession with proving you're right.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After 13 years of adventures abroad and an epiphany at an ayahuasca community in the middle of the Amazon, I have hung up my rucksack to do some adult-type things. I've spent the past few years studying holistic counselling, hypnotherapy, dreamwork, mindfulness and tantra, and I now have my own practice as a holistic hypnotherapist. I also work sporadically and part time for an international language school designing study materials.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the positive side, finding meaning in the difficulties, making salad, analyzing your dreams, and hugging. I have particularly good English, and never use an apostrophe in a plural. I also have pretty spectacular mental arithmetic.

I was told by a friend that my profile reflects who I am perfectly, so turns out I'm really good at writing online dating profiles too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am open, friendly, smiling, extroverted, and exude positive happy energy. This seems to be the thing people remember about meeting me, happily!

Also, I'm a hugger. I do try to remember to get consent before wrapping myself around you, but if I like you, you'll clearly see my enthusiasm for physical affection.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love a good inspiring uplifting mind-expanding spiritual read, documentaries about nutrition and health, anything about healing, psychology, dreams, the subconscious mind, jazz, blues, funk, soul, bossa nova, raw veggie organic yummy salads the odd greasy burger from LOTF, a glass of shiraz or pink bubbles on special occasions...

I don't own or watch TV, although I have the odd program I download when I have time, usually some twisted comedy. I don't watch a lot of movies, but I tend towards anything I can't pick the ending of in the first 10 minutes. I have an issue with cheesy endings, or anything involving Adam Sandler.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hugs, kisses, and physical affection
Hope and meaning
A Creative Outlet
Freedom and my independence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a wonderful amazing unconditionally-loving shiny goddess with no impure selfish thoughts. What I want 'home' to look like. What I want 'work' to look like. How grateful I am for the amazing life I have.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Possibly at a party, a chant, a conscious dance event or a workshop of some description. Sometimes at home with a book and a cup of tea, and sometimes cuffed to someone's balcony and being consensually flogged.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once weighed more than 100kg ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interesting, you're kind, you're positive, and you've actually read my profile. If you send me a standard copy paste message, you will receive either sarcasm, constructive advice, or nothing at all from me.