I'm very independent and not looking for someone to take care of me. Being jealous, possessive, clingy or bossy is the fastest way to get rid of me. I struggle with being given advice that I didn't ask for, or being told how I should or shouldn't feel.
I am ethically non-monogamous, heavy on the ethical. I love love, I love relationships, I love caring, sharing, cuddling, spoiling, crying, laughing, talking, and all the facets of honest human communication. I love intimacy, connection, support, and growing together. I don't enjoy relationship hierarchies. Importantly, I love freedom within my relationships. I am not afraid of relationships or commitment, because the kind of relationships I have are not scary or constricting. If you're afraid of them, maybe we have different ideas about what they look like. I'm not interested in casual sex or meaningless hooking up, so if that's what you're after, you can probably stop reading here.
My single biggest turn-on, hands down, is interesting, thought-provoking, open-minded intelligent conversation. I don't mean aggressive arguments or an obsession with proving you're right.