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37 F Melbourne, Australia

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:23pm
Asian, Middle Eastern, Black, Native American, Indian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Other, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm affectionate, spontaneous, restless, compassionate, adventurous, outgoing, easily distracted, a little oversensitive, incessantly positive, easily inspired, occasionally insecure, tirelessly self-analyzing, and always well-intentioned. I love playing the guitar and making birthday cakes, but I'm not particularly good at either of those things. I like hugs, presents, and cashew nuts. I write songs for all my favourite people and I never kill spiders.

I'm very independent and not looking for someone to take care of me. Being jealous, possessive, clingy or bossy is the fastest way to get rid of me. I struggle with being given advice that I didn't ask for, or being told how I should or shouldn't feel.

My single biggest turn-on, hands down, is interesting, thought-provoking, open-minded intelligent conversation. I don't mean aggressive arguments or an obsession with proving you're right.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After 13 years of adventures abroad and an epiphany at an ayahuasca community in the middle of the Amazon, I have hung up my rucksack to do some adult-type things. I study holistic counselling, hypnotherapy, dreamwork and tantra. I work sporadically for an international English school designing study materials and courseware.

I circulate in the yummiest of communities - 5 rhythms, tantra, Confest, Lentil, Phoenix, the poly community, etc... I like the open loving touchy feely musical creatures I meet in those places.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the positive side, finding meaning in the difficulties, making salad, analyzing your dreams, and hugging. I have particularly good English, and never use an apostrophe in a plural.

I was told by an ex partner that my profile reflects who I am perfectly, so you know... I'm really good at writing online dating profiles too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I do have a tendency to greet with a hug a little sooner than the relationship requires it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love a good inspiring uplifting mind-expanding spiritual read, documentaries about nutrition and health, jazz, blues, soul, bossa nova, raw veggie organic yummy salads fruit juice...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A Creative Outlet
Freedom and my independence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a wonderful amazing unconditionally-loving shiny goddess with no impure selfish thoughts. What I want 'home' to look like. What I want 'work' to look like. How grateful I am for the fantastic life I have.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Possibly at a party, a chant, a conscious dance event or a workshop of some description. Sometimes at home with a book and a cup of tea, and sometimes naked and wrapped in plastic being consensually flogged.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once weighed more than 100kg ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interesting, you're kind, you're positive, and you've actually read my profile ;-) If you send me a standard copy paste message, you will receive either sarcasm or nothing at all from me.