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46 F White Plains, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:05am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Not at all
Judaism, and laughing about it
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am a woman on a lifelong journey of character refinement. I honor my commitments and genuinely care about making a difference in the lives of others. I would love to share the rest of my journey with a worthy copilot.

I am open, honest, passionate, loving and a fantastic communicator. Intelligent, articulate conversation is my foreplay. I try to drink in every moment of life and am happily living and appreciating it.
I love to travel and speak several languages. I enjoy exploring my universe and collecting wonderful friends along the way.

My ideal match is able to laugh easily (especially at himself). He is responsible, mature, confident, intelligent, respectful, genuine and generous. He knows how to take charge. He enjoys witty banter. He is courageous enough to be vulnerable. He is passionate and appreciates exploration and deep, meaningful connection. A man who can be my safe space to fall.
What I’m doing with my life
Seeking spiritual growth and trying to touch souls wherever possible.

Taking care of body, mind and spirit.

I gave up the corporate life about a decade ago. Now I am administrative support staff at a school district that serves emotionally disturbed children. My boss calls me the Goddess of Excel. I hope my work supports the kids that need it most but, I don't have the privilege of working directly with them. My work affords me a very balanced life with more paid time off than most Europeans.

To fuel my spirit, I volunteer as a weekend home handler of service dogs in training which has been incredibly rewarding. I am now covered in dog saliva and fur for most of the weekend but, I clean up easily.

I also volunteer for several other organizations that empower and motivate people into what's possible. I am clear I get so much more in the process of seeking to give back.

I have varied interests including, being in nature especially by the ocean or in the mountains, travel thus far US, Europe and the Caribbean, exercise everything from yoga to weight training (I have windows where I fall of the wagon on the exercise front), sports mostly as a participant and not a spectator, and anything cultural from theater and movies to concerts, museums, zoos, etc.

Despite being somewhat of an intellectual elitist, I am not well read although I have become hooked on audiobooks. I would love to record them one day as a means of giving back.
I’m really good at
As a recovering perfectionist, I tend to excel in many areas:
puzzles of all kinds or what I call brain candy
learning languages and using words with precision
public speaking and baring my soul to strangers
making lifelong friends with total strangers on planes (my mother calls this people collecting)
nurturing children and genuinely love being in their company
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: The Usual Suspects, A Fish Called Wanda, Chocolat
Music: U2, Sarah McLachlan, Alanis Morrisette, anything with thought provoking lyrics
Food: European Dark Chocolate
Books: The Big Book, Change Your Thoughts Change Your Life
The six things I could never do without
Assuming people are not things of course:

Dark Chocolate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Me (unfortunately) and how I can make a difference in the lives of others. How I need to evolve to be able to create a deep meaningful life long connection with a man that I cherish. Perhaps I spend too much time thinking and not enough time doing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Picking up a pup, home our dining with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am an open book, ask me anything
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are interested in getting to know me better and...
You enjoy all forms of communication
You know the art of innuendo
You know how to navigate curves
You are willing to dedicate time in your life to a relationship