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47 • White Plains, NY • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 32–53
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 3:50am
- 5′ 5″ (1.65m)
- Body type
- Full figured
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Judaism, and laughing about it
- Dropped out of university
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly)
I am open, honest, passionate, loving and a fantastic communicator. Intelligent, articulate conversation is my foreplay. I drink in every moment of life and am happily living and appreciating it.
I love to travel and speak several languages. I enjoy exploring other cultures and countries while making wonderful friends along the way.
I am looking for the rare man who is able to laugh easily (especially at himself) yet responsible, mature, confident, intelligent, respectful, genuine and generous. He knows how to take charge. He enjoys witty banter. He is courageous enough to be vulnerable. He is passionate and appreciates exploration and deep, meaningful connection. Will you be my safe space to fall?
Intermittently aking care of body, mind and spirit.
I gave up the corporate life about a decade ago. Now I am administrative support staff at a school district that serves emotionally disturbed children. My boss calls me the Goddess of Excel. I hope my work supports the kids that need it most but, I don't have the privilege of working directly with them. My work affords me a very balanced life with more paid time off than most Europeans.
To fuel my spirit, I volunteer as a weekend home handler of service dogs in training which has been incredibly rewarding. I am now covered in dog saliva and fur for most of the weekend but, I clean up easily.
I also volunteer for several other organizations that empower and motivate people into what's possible. I am clear I get so much more in the process of seeking to give back.
I have varied interests including, being in nature especially by the ocean or in the mountains, travel thus far US, Europe and the Caribbean, exercise everything from yoga to weight training (I have windows where I fall of the wagon on the exercise front), sports mostly as a participant and not a spectator, and anything cultural from theater and movies to concerts, museums, zoos, etc.
Despite being somewhat of an intellectual elitist, I am not well read although I have become hooked on audiobooks. I would love to record them one day as a means of giving back.
puzzles of all kinds or what I call brain candy
learning languages and using words with precision
public speaking and baring my soul to strangers
making lifelong friends with total strangers on planes (my mother calls this people collecting)
nurturing children and genuinely love being in their company
Music: U2, Sarah McLachlan, Alanis Morrisette, anything with thought provoking lyrics
Food: European Dark Chocolate
Books: The Big Book, Change Your Thoughts Change Your Life
You know the art of innuendo
You know how to navigate curves
You are willing to dedicate time in your life to a relationship
The following are not written in stone but, I might as well specify what tends to work for me:
You are 35-55 years old, ideally between 5'9" and 6'3" with a healthy lifestyle, non-smoker, clean-cut, clean shaven, dark haired, great voice/accent
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