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46 White Plains, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Not at all
Judaism, and laughing about it
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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So I had answered 1000 questions since the end of 2008 and had cleared all those answers recently in an attempt to start over. It appears to have made things worse so I'm now open to suggestion. Perhaps my faith in mankind needs some restoring. Are there any good men left who are interested in more than just a booty call? Will all the scammers of the world ever opt to use their time more wisely? Will the stars align in a way that the right man for me actually shows up in the right place at the right time? Will I be able to fully appreciate him when he does? Am I better off flying solo forever? Who knows?

I am a woman on a lifelong journey of character refinement. I honor my commitments and genuinely care about making a difference in the lives of others. I would love to share the rest of my journey with a worthy partner.

I am open, honest, passionate, loving and a fantastic communicator. Intelligent, articulate conversation is my foreplay. I try to drink in every moment of life and am happily living and appreciating it.
I love to travel and speak several languages. I enjoy exploring my universe and collecting wonderful friends along the way.

My ideal match is able to laugh easily (especially at himself). He is responsible, mature, confident, intelligent, respectful, genuine and generous. He knows how to take charge. He enjoys witty banter. He is courageous enough to be vulnerable. He is passionate and appreciates exploration and deep, meaningful connection. A man who can be my safe space to fall.

I have never wanted to add the superficial bs to my profile but, I think it is important to own my preferences. They are not written in stone but, here they are: 35-55 years old, healthy lifestyle, non-smoker, 5'9"-6'3", clean-cut, clean shaven, dark haired, great voice/accent....Perhaps owning my truth will make it more likely to happen.
What I’m doing with my life
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Seeking spiritual growth and trying to touch souls wherever possible.

Taking care of body, mind and spirit.

I gave up the corporate life about a decade ago. Now I am administrative support staff at a school district that serves emotionally disturbed children. My boss calls me the Goddess of Excel. I hope my work supports the kids that need it most but, I don't have the privilege of working directly with them. My work affords me a very balanced life with more paid time off than most Europeans.

To fuel my spirit, I volunteer as a weekend home handler of service dogs in training which has been incredibly rewarding. I am now covered in dog saliva and fur for most of the weekend but, I clean up easily.

I also volunteer for several other organizations that empower and motivate people into what's possible. I am clear I get so much more in the process of seeking to give back.

I have varied interests including, being in nature especially by the ocean or in the mountains, travel thus far US, Europe and the Caribbean, exercise everything from yoga to weight training (I have windows where I fall of the wagon on the exercise front), sports mostly as a participant and not a spectator, and anything cultural from theater and movies to concerts, museums, zoos, etc.

Despite being somewhat of an intellectual elitist, I am not well read although I have become hooked on audiobooks. I would love to record them one day as a means of giving back.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
As a recovering perfectionist, I tend to excel in many areas:
puzzles of all kinds or what I call brain candy
learning languages and using words with precision
public speaking and baring my soul to strangers
making lifelong friends with total strangers on planes (my mother calls this people collecting)
nurturing children and genuinely love being in their company
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hair, eyes, smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: The Usual Suspects, A Fish Called Wanda, Chocolat
Music: U2, Sarah McLachlan, Alanis Morrisette, anything with thought provoking lyrics
Food: European Dark Chocolate
Books: The Big Book, Change Your Thoughts Change Your Life
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Assuming people are not things of course:

Dark Chocolate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Me (unfortunately) and how I can make a difference in the lives of others. How I need to evolve to be able to create a deep meaningful life long connection with a man that I cherish. Perhaps I spend too much time thinking and not enough time doing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Picking up a pup, home or dining with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am an open book, ask me anything
You should message me if
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You are interested in getting to know me better and...
You enjoy all forms of communication
You know the art of innuendo
You know how to navigate curves
You are willing to dedicate time in your life to a relationship

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