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40 M Uniondale, NY

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Last Online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
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"It is no measure of good health to be well adjusted to a sick society."

In a nutshell, if society gives me a message, I probably don't endorse it. I'm not a partier, I don't do it "just because it feels good" I don't experiment with things I know are bad for me, I don't spend it as fast as I earn it, and I make a lousy consumer. I'm not patriotic, I don't care about sports and I invest time, I don't waste or spend it. I despise mediocrity and the things humans invent to divide us rather than unite us.

I don't believe women are objects. I find "you're cute" or "nice tits" or "hey baby" degrading, deplorable, and if that's what you need from your man, we are not going to work out. I think the sexiest thing a woman can own is a diploma or two; not lingerie, not push up bras, and definitely not collagen lips.

I do something every day to sharpen my skills, I am eager to learn about you, people, society, and humanity. I believe everyone has a story to tell and yours is probably far more interesting than "game of thrones, Breaking Bad, Orange/Black" or anything on TV.

I realize I've already lost 90% of readers, if you are in the remaining 10%, by all means, read on and I'm sure we'll get along fine.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Getting grown men to cry and hurt women to laugh in group therapy sessions. Also helping teens raise their SAT scores. I find all three of those activities quite rewarding. I also have my own youtube channel as of July 2014.

If you like science fiction:
If not...may want to skip this.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Karate, archery, pool, video editing, kissing (not to be immodest but I’m told), portrait illustration, lumosity, chess, bicycling, board games, card games, listening (comes with the profession), playing guitar, driving (oh how important that is) and getting into grey matter.

I am good at understanding diversity. If I wanted to date someone just like me, I believe the app for that is called a mirror.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If women noticed me, I would not be using this site to meet them, would I?

I've been told by many people that they notice my patience.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't watch too much TV. I do watch a lot of youtube though.

As for food, I'm not a foodie, I'm an eater. I am by no means picky. Korean, Thai, German, Indian, Persian, and yes, Italian among many.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
list 1
Oxygen, water, protein and carbohydrate based substances, gravity, human contact, and free time. Please see Maslow's Hierarchy of needs for further elaboration.

list 2
My GPS, my computer, youtube, my camera, chocolate, and spellcheck. I think Spellcheck trumps them all, even oxygen.

Notice that money is not on that list. My material needs are quite small and I don't intend to spend my life collecting serial numbers affixed to portraits of dead US patriots. I consider life to be about people and happiness. Money may buy one freedom, but it doesn't buy one happiness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why the women with the most makeup, the fakest and/or pushed-up boobs, the most plastic surgery and the obviously instagram-filtered pictures are the first ones to say they are looking for a "real man"? And what is a "real man" anyhow? I have a penis and a "Y" chromosome. I'm as real as it gets.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...wondering why women who write "it’s a secret so I'm not telling you" (or something to that effect) in the "most private things I'm willing to admit" section are the ones who say they want an honest and open man who "doesn't keep secrets." I think about that and why women who obviously put up sexy pictures meant to show off their cleavage or ass get annoyed when men objectify them. Yes I really do think about that...but not on Friday nights. That's more of a Tuesday afternoon thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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As much fun as it has been creating this profile, I dislike having needed to create it. I believe I represent far better in person.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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If you have anything to say about the following quotes...

“People are only as happy as they let themselves be.”
“What’s fun is not always right and what’s right is not always fun.”
“For millions of years it was nature that was the greatest killer of human beings, now it's culture."

Lastly, throughout most of human history when a person acknowledges your presence, the courteous thing to do is to acknowledge them back so please write back if even to say "no thank you, you are not what I am looking for." I promise if I'm not for you that I won't be mad at you, no one is for everyone.

Sadly, and this is no joke, 9 out of 10 people don't read this far, or lack the courtesy to write back. I hope you are different. Good luck in your search, may the force be with you.