Find better matches with our advanced matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


40 M Uniondale, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:54pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

Similar Users

My self-summary
**The good**
-I’m stable mentally, emotionally and financially
-I say what I mean and mean what I say
-I do not use pot, alcohol, caffeine or nicotine
-I use proper English in any medium but prefer to talk over text
-I’m educated, I have over 300 college credits and 14 years of post-high school education, I tutor the SAT to high schoolers
-I am an Army veteran. No, I don’t have PTSD
-I have a career as a therapist, no I won't treat you like a client
-I draw and I have a portfolio that I’m hoping you will like
-I’m open-minded to dating women of any race or color. I like variety
-I have a car that works
-I don't live with my parents
-I watch how much I eat but eat just about anything
**The not-so-good**
-I can’t get around Long Island without a GPS
**The ugly**
-I’m looking for one woman, first come first serve ladies. And no guys…there I said it…I am looking for a woman. Guys, please stop writing.
What I’m doing with my life
Getting grown men to cry and hurt women to laugh in group therapy sessions. Also helping teens raise their SAT scores. I find all three of those activities very rewarding. I'm also launching my own youtube channel next month (August).
I’m really good at
Karate, archery, pool, video editing, kissing (not to be immodest but I’m told), portrait illustration, lumosity, chess, bicycling, board games, card games, listening (comes with the profession), playing guitar, driving (oh how important that is) and getting into grey matter.

I am good at understanding diversity. If I wanted to date someone just like me, I believe the app for that called a mirror.
The first things people usually notice about me
If women noticed me, I would not be using this site to meet them, would I?

I've been told by many people that they notice my patience. When using this site, that is a plus.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't watch too much TV. I do watch a lot of youtube though. I have (as of July 19th) 3 videos in the final editing stages that I'll be posting to youtube probably in the beginning of next month.
The six things I could never do without
list 1
Oxygen, water, protein and carbohydrate based substances, gravity, human contact, and free time. Please see Maslow's Hierarchy of needs for further elaboration.

list 2
My GPS, my computer, youtube, my camera, chocolate, and spellcheck. I think Spellcheck trumps them all, even oxygen.

Notice that money is not on that list. My material needs are quite small and I don't intend to spend my life collecting serial numbers affixed to portraits of dead US patriots. I consider life to be about people and happiness. Money may buy one freedom, but it doesn't buy one happiness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why the women with the most makeup, the fakest and/or pushed-up boobs, the most plastic surgery and the obviously instagram-filtered pictures are the first ones to say they are looking for a "real man"? And what is a "real man" anyhow? I have a penis and a "Y" chromosome. I'm as real as it gets. No I won't send you a picture of that as proof any time soon.
On a typical Friday night I am
...wondering why women who write "it’s a secret so I'm not telling you" (or something to that effect) in the "most private things I'm willing to admit" section are the ones who say they want an honest and open man who "doesn't keep secrets." I think about that and why women who obviously put up sexy pictures meant to show off their cleavage or ass get annoyed when men objectify them. Yes I really do think about that...but not on Friday nights. That's more of a Tuesday afternoon thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
As much fun as it has been creating this profile, I dislike having needed to create it. I believe I represent far better in person.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you have anything to say about the following quotes...
"It is no measure of health to be well-adjusted to a sick society."
“People are only as happy as they let themselves be.”
“What’s fun is not always right and what’s right is not always fun.”
“For millions of years it was nature that was the greatest killer of human beings, now it's culture."

Lastly, throughout most of human history when a person acknowledges your presence, the courteous thing to do is to acknowledge them back so please write back if even to say "no thank you, you are not what I am looking for." I promise if I'm not for you that I won't be mad at you, no one is for everyone.

Sadly, and this is no joke, 9 out of 10 people don't read this far, or lack the courtesy to write back. I hope you are different. Good luck in your search, may the force be with you.