28 Arlington, VA
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My self-summary
I'm a geeky, athletic, open-minded young professional in the Court House area. I love keeping active and fit, bar tending at parties and crafting new drinks, I'm obsessed with music and internet radio, and I'm a junior foodie who's always looking for a healthy bite - or a guilty pleasure. The latter seems to be a recurring theme for me.

I am in an ethically non-monogamous relationship with my primary partner of one year. I'm not looking for a unicorn, for anything illicit on the side, or for anything other than forming relationships with people who are comfortable with this kind of lifestyle. My ideal partner would be someone who is open-minded, progressive, honest, respectful, and who is able to challenge me to grow.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a job in software working on [REDACTED]. In all seriousness, the day to day work might not be the most engaging, but it's gratifying to work on an important project. So in short, yes to job security, a regular income, and a car (if those are criteria you care about).

With that nonsense out of the way, I feel fortunate to have a strong circle of friends with varying interests. I'm bored when I'm not learning about something, so in the past year or so I've increased my knowledge of cooking, strength training (5x5 partners are more than welcome), rope (and my other kinky interests), healthcare, consent culture, and massage.

I've spent the past year exploring various open relationships, and I've gained an understanding of what I need as an individual, and what makes a relationship (open or otherwise) healthy. In short, communication, trust, honesty, respect, and work. Especially work. I feel invested in my relationships, and I'm grateful to have my partners in my life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm an ape-descended life form so amazingly primitive that I still
think digital watches are a pretty neat idea. I'm often
told that I have a nice smile and that my eyelashes inspire jealousy. Also the beard. It's fuller now than in some of those pics.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I absolutely love finding new music, so please feel free to pass your favorites on to me. I listen to virtually every new album as I'm able to - especially ones which get a writeup in my favorite music blogs. My favorite genres are hip hop, post/alt/indie/folk rock, and electronic.

I follow Archer, Adventure Time, Doctor Who, Orphan Black, Game of Thrones, and Bob's Burgers. I tried to watch Attack on Titan, but I'm not enough of an emotional masochist. Even GoT is gentler.

My favorite film is Conan the Barbarian. The one with Arnold Schwarzenegger. I'm just throwing that out there.

I recently finished A Storm of Swords, the third book in the Game of Thrones (ASoIaF) series. My favorite novel is The Razor's Edge by W. Somerset Maugham. Of course I love Douglas Adams.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Donut adventures and J Dilla.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going on a donut adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't like milk on my cereal. Or pandas. Not pandas on my cereal - pandas in general. Don't get me started...
You should message me if
If you know you're a good catch. If you're comfortable with open relationships and non-monogamy. If you want something new, maybe something kinky. If you want to share favorite drinks, music, and restaurants. And most of all, if you just want to enjoy yourself with someone who will respect you and be honest with you.