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39 F Atlanta, GA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 7
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm Alyah. I'm a Relationship Coach. I love hearing about people's lives, helping them solve problems, and watching shifts happen in their awareness right before my eyes! I love watching the true self awaken and emerge. I am a healer and coach. I know quite a bit about chakras, yoga, meditation, and tantra. I also love to hike, backpack, and be outside taking in the sun... the sun is my lifeline.

I grew up in VA, lived in Colorado (Boulder & Denver) for 12 years, and have been travelling around the Wild West for a couple years. I'm now in Atlanta indefinitely (I've been here since April 2013). My boyfriend got a job here, so here we are! We have an open relationship.

I would like to meet people with whom I can enjoy a great meal and interesting conversation. If a more close/intimate relationship evolves, great. If not, great. I am open to whatever the Universe brings. :D
What I’m doing with my life
I am a life coach and teacher of tantra. I intend to hold tantra workshops at some point. I also make youtube videos from time to time on inspiring and thought-provoking topics. I try to inspire people and help them live a more awesome-amazing life. I love films and film-making. I would, eventually, like to give talks on the same topics as my videos (dating, relationships, sex, love, spirituality, making dreams reality).
I’m really good at
Laughing, having fun, alchemizing negative feelings/experiences into positive ones, being compassionate, enjoying the finer things in life like a good meal. I'm good at listening and really hearing people... I love to talk with people and explore their unique philosophy.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm beautiful, upbeat, down-to-earth, curious, and very open about my life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: "A Course in Miracles", "The Power of Now" Eckhart Tolle, "Conversations with God", "Ishmael".

Movies: "Avatar", "The Guru", "The Big Lebowski", "I Heart Huckabees", "Jackie Brown", "Field of Dreams", "The Secret", "What the Bleep?!", other documentaries, just about anything by Stanley Kubrick ("Eyes Wide Shut", "The Shining") and David Lynch ("Mulholland Drive", "Twin Peaks")

Music: Tori Amos, Coldplay, trance/ambient/techno, bluegrass, classical.

Food: Sushi, Indian, Mediterranean, Thai, Chinese, Mexican, soups, all-natural, organic.
The six things I could never do without
Sunshine, spending time in nature, my morning alone time before facing the world, affection, music, spontaneity, Burning Man!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
healing myself and others, becoming whole, living in a state of unconditional love/non-judgment, living in an intentional community (or creating my own!), living sustainably, being less adult and more childlike (i.e. living in the moment as much as possible!)
On a typical Friday night I am
enjoying a home-cooked meal and movie with friends. Sometimes dancing either out or at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
~I prefer open relationships... everyone is free to date others and free to share their experiences. (See my wiki on polyamory:
~I am not attracted to ~95% of men, so we should not not start off assuming there will be sex. Let's assume friendship and see where that goes. If it flows into sex, awesome. If not, no big deal.
~Another tip, if you make a move on me and I am not responsive, it's not because I'm shy... it means I'm not into you. No offense should be taken... there's not always an attraction two ways... no big deal. If I *am* attracted, not only will I be responsive, I will be forward... no worries on that! :D
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–56
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
~You are a SERIOUSLY independent thinker. You're a rule-breaker, a misfit, you don't buy almost anything society tells you).
~You consider yourself a spiritual person and are into some New Age/Eastern stuff (yoga, meditation, chakras, kundalini, tantra, energy healing, etc.).
~You are self-aware. You are capable of looking at yourself and others objectively. You are able to openly admit your strengths and faults. You're more loving and compassionate than judgmental of self and others.
~You have a big heart. You can give and receive a lot of love.

~Alyah (pronounced "Uh-lee-uh")