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54 San Diego, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 46–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:37am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Has a kid
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi! Thanks for reading…
Let’s go beyond pictures and try to quickly get to essence. It’s much easier in-person because energy, voice, eyes, body gestures tell so much. But hey, let’s give it a try.

 I truly do love being outdoors and near the ocean.
 Love live music, especially when I dance. Big bonus if you like to dance too.
 Love warm weather, bike around the bay, walks at the beach. Hand-in-hand with my guy, who is equally happy, healthy and we feel sparks together, is bliss.
 I am healthy. It’s important to take care of self physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually.
 I'm curious, social and expressive with words and affection - touch and kissing are a powerful, enjoyable love language. :-).
 I like to eat healthy, fresh fish, salads, sushi.
 Spiritually connected, appreciative, nature is my place to connect – not into structured religion.
 Others describe me as an explorer, passionate, awake, energetic, fun, positive.
 Creative expression is through writing, art projects, dance.
 My career path has been rewarding but not my focus now, I do work 4 days/week, with lots of flexibility to be with you.
 I believe in positive energy, thoughts and actions.
 I believe in healthy, loving, sexy, fun monogamous relationships. I am here because I am ready for this to grow and develop with the right partner.

If you connect with what is below, we are off to a great start:
 a youthful spirit, active, healthy
 honest, kind, supportive
 intelligent and curious
 communicative, expressive and we’ll grow together in that area
 desiring to grow a long-term relationship and available for that with balance in other areas (work, kids, financial stability, health, family- I am very free, including life-drama- free)
 enjoys being out socially and alone together
 enjoys the ocean, live music, has a good sense of humor
 is positive and happy (I would only want that because I am that too)
 is spiritually open-minded, not into strict religion/church
 Enjoys conversation, dancing, staring at the moon, being supportive of each other, hugs, kisses, intimacy, and having fun!

If you're curious about my past, there's a good family, education, and traveled to about 20 countries. I was married 20 years, divorced in 2008. My son is a gem and goes to Florida State. I know how to give, be faithful, and value a relationship.

What’s on your bucket list? New Zealand, Bora Bora, Machu Piccu….warm beaches...

My birthday in Jan 2014 totals 55, a foreign number that doesn't fit my body, lifestyle and spirit - so I adjusted a little due to filters.

If this feels honestly like a match you want to explore for the highest of good, please email. With mutual connection and attraction, we’ll meet soon because chemistry and relationships need to be in person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved here from Florida in Summer 2011 and love it. I moved for the vibrant energy, beautiful scenery, healthy living, outdoors, coast, complete change. I was an independent consultant to leadership teams and now work internally and enjoy it. I also write and speak, so the exploring part is ingrained in me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having fun, communicating, synthesizing, socializing, contemplating, inspiring, kissing, touching, laughing at your jokes and expressing and showing you my feelings and affection.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, my energy and presence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Nonfiction personal exploration and growth.
Excellent book: The Mastery of Love, Art of Relationship by Don Miguel Ruiz.

Love many types of music, especially live: Rock, Reggae, Blues, World, Tribal drums & wood flute. Mumford & Sons, Of Monsters & Men, Pearl Jam, Florence & The Machines, Dave Matthews Band, Lumineers, Lorde, dancing music! Born & raised in Louisiana - c'mon, music & rhythm are in my blood. Food: Mex, veggie, sushi, Thai, fish of most kinds.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Nature: Especially the ocean, flowers and breathing fresh air
Passion, romance, love with my special mate
Live music and dancing
Connections with important people in my life, especially my son
Taking walks in the sunshine
Deeper conversations that explore, question, help us grow
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How grateful I am for the life I have. How important connections with others are. How beautiful nature is. Having the right, loving mate by my side. A lot more. We'll discuss and explore.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out listening to music, dancing or at a special event or party, or ... simply a walk on the beach and romantic sunset, snuggling with my man after a delicious lite dinner, drink, yummy dessert.
I enjoy being with special friends - ready to be first on the list?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hummmmmm. I'm pretty expressive. Get to know me. You'll know a lot!
You should message me if
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you are fun-loving, a youthful spirit, honest, intelligent, affectionate, communicative, available to grow a relationship if it develops, and really read and connected with what I wrote above.