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53 F San Diego, CA

My Details

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs

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My self-summary

Contrasts with a theme....I can move fast or slow, introspective or extrovert, mainstream or eclectic. I have to be with an ocean and music lover, because that's where you'll find me often, and I want to share and enjoy together. You like a fun-spirited girl who is intelligent and curious, social and expressive, affectionate and who loves to be outdoors. You take care of yourself, physically and emotionally. You want a long-term committed relationship, and we let it evolve naturally. You are affectionate and playful, intelligent, open-minded, open to learning and ready to embark on an amazing journey ahead. I am all of this too.

I'm trying to get to the essence here.
Here's Me, in addition to what's above:
Happy, healthy, authentic, touch and kiss, love and warmth. An explorer, passionate and awake. I believe in positive thoughts and actions and living in harmony; spiritually interconnected without structured religion.

What's important? A loving, healthy, supportive, fun, romantic and growing relationship with one mate; connecting with friends often; my 21 year old son (goes to FSU); sunny beachy days, creative expression and personal growth. If you're curious about my past, it's full of blessings with a good family, education, well-traveled, career. But my focus is ahead....time for fun, romance, intimacy, exploration, creativity and most of all, loving.

Here's You, in addition to what's above:
A youthful spirit, honest, communicative, available to grow a relationship if it develops, and enjoy being out, explore and have fun, as well as snuggle at home. With your special mate, you are willing to support, ask questions, show interest, laugh, receive love and work together to understand, as I am also.

Together, we have many shared interests, communication that is open, respectful, clear. There are sparks, fun and passion!

FYI, my birthday in Jan 2014 makes me 55, a foreign number that feels like a stranger to my body, health, lifestyle and spirit - so I adjusted a little due to filters. There are age parameters on here and I don't like that box; I don't like many conforming, standard "boxes" for that matter. My energy is young and the right mate has a youthful mind, body and spirit also.

My intentions for a real connection are pure with the right one. If this feels honestly like a match you may want to grow, invest and give to, don't be shy, introduce yourself with an email!
What I’m doing with my life
I moved here from Florida in Summer 2011 and love it. I moved for the vibrant energy, beautiful scenery, healthy living, outdoors, coast, complete change. I was an independent consultant to leadership teams and now work internally and enjoy it. I also write and speak, so the exploring part is ingrained in me.

What else am I doing? I love live music, dancing, having a drink with friends, beach walking, talking, thinking, laughing, cuddling.
I’m really good at
Having fun, communicating, synthesizing, socializing, contemplating, inspiring, kissing, touching, laughing at your jokes and expressing and showing you my feelings and affection.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my energy and presence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Nonfiction personal exploration and growth.
Excellent book for everyone on this site: The Mastery of Love, Art of Relationship by Don Miguel Ruiz.

Love many types of music, especially live: Rock, Reggae, Blues, World, Tribal drums & wood flute. Mumford & Sons, Of Monsters & Men, Pearl Jam, Florence & The Machines, Dave Matthews Band, Lumineers, Christina Perry, Lorde, Journey, SuperTramp, Adele, Jimmy Cliff, Cars, Billy Idol, dancing music! Born & raised in Louisiana - c'mon, music & rhythm are in my blood. Food: Mex, veggie, sushi, Thai, fish of most kinds.
The six things I could never do without
Nature: Especially the ocean, flowers and breathing fresh air
Passion, romance, love with my special mate
Live music and dancing
Connections with important people in my life, especially my son
Taking walks in the sunshine
Deeper conversations that explore, question, help us grow
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How grateful I am for the life I have. How important connections with others are. How beautiful nature is. Having the right, loving mate by my side. A lot more. We'll discuss and explore.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out listening to music, dancing or at a special event or party, or ... simply a walk on the beach and romantic sunset, snuggling with my man after a delicious lite dinner, drink, yummy dessert.
I enjoy being with special friends - ready to be first on the list?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hummmmmm. On this site? I've been married once. A long time. I know how to do commitment and loyalty. I'm pretty expressive. Get to know me. You'll know a lot!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 46–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you are fun-loving, a youthful spirit, honest, intelligent, affectionate, communicative, available to grow a relationship if it develops, and really read and connected with what I wrote above.