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57 • Columbus, OH • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–99
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Apr 21
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
- Rather not say
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
Verbal; usually, but not always.
Fiendish: *wicked grin*
Kind: Very, but not particularly *nice.*
Considerably more Dom than sub.
I don't cheat when it comes to committed relationships, and I'm not willing to engage with those who do.
Attracted by intelligence, androgyny, humor, open minds and big hearts, affection, personal integrity, creativity, self-awareness, and hedonism, not necessarily in that order.
I'd rather be approached than do the approaching, it just seems to work out better that way.
Like all redheads, I am descended from felines rather than primates (according to Mark Twain.) If you don't like cats and they don't like you, our chances of a mutually satisfying relationship are lower than otherwise, but not necessarily insurmountable.
If you are attracted by the unusual, aren't fazed by physical and sometimes emotional challenges, know the difference between faze and phase, (and use both correctly) think for yourself, and are willing to work a little to get to the good parts, the odds improve considerably.
Serenity, The Life of Pi, Undead or Alive. The rest are subject to change without notice.
Eclectic and mood dependent. I never seem to get tired of Leonard Cohen, woodwinds, minor chords, or Prokofiev.
Well prepared, beautifully presented complex meals, Greek yogurt with cheerios, and lots of stuff in between. Flavorful but not too spicy, please.
What did I learn?
What can I teach?
What's my "next right thing?"
Patterns. All kinds.
How to get from point A to point B.
Am I EVER going to be able to shut off my brain and get to sleep?
+3 to intelligence if you can source the quote.
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