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Laurelized

24 / F / Straight / Single

Lansing, Michigan

Her Details

Last Online
Jun 7
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it matters a lot
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Has kids, and wants more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hello, my name is Laurel. I'm 24 years old. I live in Lansing, Michigan, where I was born and raised. However, I did live out of state in Louisiana a few years ago, and I really enjoyed it. In my details, it only allows me to choose one zodiac, which bites, because I'm actually born on the cusp between Libra and Scorpio. I feel that my signs have a lot to do with explaining the type of person that I am. In my younger years, I reflected more traits of a Scorpio, but giving birth to my son when I was 18 brought out the Libra side of me. I usually act older than my actual age due to the fact that I felt I had to grow up faster having children.
I live every moment of my life thinking of how all my decisions will affect my children. They are what I live for. Because of this, and my relationship history, I have much higher standards of the things I look for in a partner. I keep myself very guarded toward new relationship possibilities. I've done the casual thing, I've had one-night stands and all I want now is a grown man, not measured by age, but by maturity. I am tenacious and ambitious ... if you're not, then you're not the man for me.
I also have expectations of what it should be like on a date with me. I don't want to be intimidating or unapproachable; it's just that I have learned from experience what my needs are. A man needs to be chivalrous; if you don't know what that means, you might as well stop reading and move on. I am not a kid, I know that parties aren't dates. McDonald's isn't a date. I'm a mother and I deserve to be treated like a grown woman. I have always wanted those "fancy" dates. Pick me up in the evening, take me someplace nice where I can dress up and feel like the wonderful woman that I am. I'm not saying that I don't also enjoy a nice afternoon outing doing something casual and fun. I love the outdoors. I love trying new things. I feel that as a whole, my expectations are such that I may never actually meet someone who rises to the occasion. If you feel so compelled as to accept the challenge, please read on. If not, best of luck in your endeavors.
What I’m doing with my life
First and foremost, I am a mother. I work for a living. I am striving to get my photography business up and going. I have every intention to attend the community college in Fall of 2013. I plan to double major in Photography and History. I hope to one day take photos for Rolling Stone Magazine or National Geographic. I've always enjoyed shooting bands during live performances as well as promotional materials. Working for Rolling Stone would enable me to meet some fantastic people that I might otherwise never get to meet. As I stated above, I very much enjoy the outdoors, and working for something like National Geographic would open doors to many amazing travel experiences that I may otherwise never be exposed to. Lastly, I am a mother. This is not redundant. The first and last thing I am every day is a Mother.
I’m really good at
Kissing BooBoos, Chasing away the BoogieMan, Making homemade Pizza, Making up fun things to do with my children, Photography, debating, explaining logic to children or child like adults.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Hunger Games, Fifty Shades of Grey, Abarat, The Thief of Always, Tao Te Ching, The Art of War, Animal Farm, The Book, 1984, A Brave New World, Wayfarers Redemption, Shel Silverstine, Dr. Suess, Little Critter books by Mercer Mayer,

Movies: I have too many faves to list them here. I have a very big dvd collection.

Shows: I'm not much for TV but I do watch some online sometimes.

Food: Salmon, it's my new regular thing to cook. So many ways to make it!
The six things I could never do without
1. My beautiful children.
2. My sanity.
3. My camera.
4. Music.
5. Art.
6. The occasional drink after you have had just "one of those days."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My children and our future.
On a typical Friday night I am
I get to stay up late with my 5-year-old son watching movies and eating popcorn. It's very fun considering he just started school this year and can't stay up late with me anymore. That's a typical Friday night in the life of Laurel. Simple. If you haven't gotten it yet, my kids always come first. Doing something with them is far better than doing anything else with my day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can say that in my past I made some 'not so great choices,' but I learned from them and now am on my path to success. I have no secrets, no skeletons. I'm as honest and real as they come. I lack a filter and always speak my mind. I am working on knowing when to hold my tongue and almost have it down.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You have made it this far and still didn't get scared away. :)