Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to meet a not so average girl that is a gorgeous mess of
chaos and you can see it in my eyes.
"Dear Man who thinks he is interested,
I am not simple or easy to understand. I can not give straight
answers to your questions about me because I don't know the
answers. I am complex, philosophical, duallistic in my own
thinking. I do not like to be labelled, boxed up, frozen in time. I
need movement, freedom to explore, to be curious and to change my
mind. Countless times.
My mind and my heart are two separate entities. Like brother and
sister-they tease each other, fight each other, confide and look
out for one another. Most of the time they confuse the hell out of
each other. My mind is strong, logical, able to see every situation
from every perspective.
My heart is weak, irrational, blind-sided often. But it is my heart
that I trust the most. Even when it leads me down paths of
heartache and destruction. I value the path of my heart. For my
heart is connected to my soul. And my soul must travel a winding
path of ups and downs.
Yes, I can be easy going, playful, fun to be around. I find
happiness in the warmth of the sun, the energy of the moon, and the
interaction between the two. I love the feeling of being with the
people I love and trust. I love being outdoors, in nature, in the
wild. I love waking up with you in my bed, with your arms wrapped
around me, your finger interlocked with mine. This is why you think
I love, deeply. With all my heart. You see, there are places in my
heart that are taken up by lovers and places. There are spaces in
my heart that are filled with the notion of future lovers and
future places. There are parts of my heart that are filled with the
growing love for myself. My love for the moon. My love for emotions
and uncertainty. There is very little room in my heart for
And yet here you are. You intrigue me. I find myself wanting to get
to know you better, wanting to find new places in my heart for you.
As others have, maybe you will find a temporary place in my heart.
Like a vacation to the sunny beaches of Hawaii. Where the air is
moist, and the waves crash along the beach.
You will find joy and happiness here, and then you will leave. Not
because you want to, but because my heart no longer wants your
physical body there. It will only want the lingering and
bittersweet memory of you. Enough for me to hold on to you forever,
but not enough for you to stay. This is what has happened many
But maybe, my heart will not want you to leave. Maybe my heart has
a place for you to call home. A place we can grow and learn
together. Fall in love with places together. Watch the moon
So, I send you this as a warning, and as an invitation, to get to
know me better. For you to know that I feel a connection to those
who have come before you and to those who will hypothetically come
after. Because my heart has a huge capacity to love and my mind has
the tendency to dream. But this is who I am, today, in this moment.
For how long, I do not know. So for now, I say good night to you,
goodnight to my sleepless mind, goodnight to my weary heart, and
most of all, goodnight to the moon....."
* please do not message me if you 1.) Can't take the time to fill
out a profile and 2.) You don't have pictures up-- its just not
fair and attraction is a huge part of the deal... Just sayin-- Play
*If you're just looking for a piece of ass don't bother because I'm
not the kind of girl that just going to jump in your bed, I have
more class than that.
*And BOYS born in the 90's please stop messaging me. You are far
too young- NO EXCEPTIONS. I will not respond.