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65 Santee, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 55–80
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:26pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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At the risk of being obnoxious by writing in all caps, I feel I need to say ... PLEASE DO NOT SEND ME A MESSAGE IF YOU AREN'T AGE APPROPRIATE. I REALLY DON'T WANT TO HEAR FROM ANYONE IN THEIR 20's, 30's, or 40's - a waste of my time, and yours too- no exceptions. Thank you.

I am a sensual, intelligent woman sincerely wanting a partner to spend the rest of my life with. We will enjoy romantic adventures at home and abroad. Adventures is the operative word here as I have a travel bug and not just for luxury resorts, though they have their place, certainly. :) We will explore exotic cities, hike beautiful trails and enjoy lovely beaches. We will also cook, garden, kick off our shoes, read and just hang out and enjoy each other and the beautiful world. We are in the prime years of our life. Let's share some really great times!

My ideal match will be willing to actively work with me to create the best relationship we've ever had. And oh, PLEASE be a great kisser :) A sense of humor scores lots of points as well.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying grandkids, water aerobics, and still searching for the meaning of life and looking for a life partner .
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I do well at most things I choose to tackle. I know a little or more about a lot. Maybe here's the place to throw in the phrase "lifelong learner".
The first things people usually notice about me
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You can tell me when we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm partial to ethnic food with a little spice- Indian, Korean, sechuan, but I eat most anything, in moderation, and not much red meat.

I'm always with a book in my bag and next to my bed. I enjoy mysteries and read many of the popular series- e.g., the Kellermans, Grafton, O' Shaugnessy, Lippman, Turow, Larssen (so sad he's gone), and many more. I also read (at a much slower pace) psychology, philosophy and science, and currently "This Will Make You Smarter", a collection of short essays by some of the most prominent thinkers of our times- philosophers, economists, cognitive scientists, is on my nightstand.

My TV tastes run right along with my reading as I enjoy PBS mysteries and Materpiece Theater, also series like Good Wife, Damages, The Closer, all the Law and Orders (including UK), etc., plus documentaries about the universe- where we've come from, where we're going, and on. Occasionally I'll watch a history documentary. I also enjoy some of the quirkier series like Nurse Jackie and the Big C. I don't get "reality" TV.

Musically I love old rock and roll, 60's- 70's almost everything, bluegrass, and reggae. Actually, I like all music- I've even come to appreciate some forms of rap. I listen to classical music at times, but I've never enjoyed opera, and only some forms of jazz turn me on..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My grandchildren
the Internet (not for the chatting, for me it's a library on my desk, or on my phone)
Eventually YOU-whoever you may be
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how ugly and contentious politics has become in recent years. It used to be more interesting and intellectual, but maybe I am just less naive these days.!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
thinking I'd like to be out and about or cuddling with YOU.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My left leg is an inch shorter than my right leg. :)

Come on! Private is private.
You should message me if
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something in this profile moves you to get to know me.