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Lavender-Luver

25 / F / straight / Single

San Francisco, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Okay), Vietnamese (Fluently)

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I am not a heartbreaker, just clumsy, and ~.^.

My Self-Summary

I'm always looking to network and meeting other creative individuals. I've done my nerdy part of getting a BS in Interactive design ‘n a BA in Fashion Design. If you can't tell already, I design and also model, so I'm into art of many forms. I always keep a network open mind, so photographers, artists, models, designers.. I wanna meet y'all! With that being said, I've always enjoyed meeting new interesting people, and I like randomness. Never hurt to have more friends ;)

I believe in fate and that there's a reason why we meet the people we do. I like planning things as much as being spontaneous. I live up to the 3P’s rule- Patience, Persistent and Perspective.

What I’m doing with my life

Surviving the recession (trying at least). Settling into a new place. Looking for a steady job related to design field. Doing more modeling and fashion design. Going to the gym 'n jogging around GG Park. Being healthy. Trying to take more vacations, been working and no fun :/

I’m really good at

Expressing myself vocally and in writing. Check out my posts if you're curious, hehehe. I'm getting rid of the long @$$ profile here ;)

The first things people usually notice about me

- My eyes?
- My lips. I'm a pouter
- My punky attitude
- I like to giggle
- I'm a sarcastic kinda gal
- My boots (I own a cool collection >.<)
- You tell me!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

The Curious Case of Benjamin Button- "We're meant to lose the people we love; how else are we to know how important they are to us?"
“Life can only be understood looking backward. It must be lived forward.”
"Our lives are defined by opportunities. Even the ones we miss."
“It’s a funny thing coming home. Nothing changes. Everything looks the same, feels the same, even smells the same. You realize what’s changed, is you.”

My Sassy Girl- "Fate is building a bridge of chance for the one you love"

The 2 Faces of My GirlFriend- "Love is like raindrops on a window. Why? Because it evaporates quickly and easily, not only that... it also leaves dirty marks behind..."

d'Amelie Poulain- "Without you, today's emotions would be the scurf of yesterday's."

"We pass the time of day to forget how time passes."

Memoirs of a Geisha- "At the temple, there is a poem called "Lost" carved into the stone. It has three words, but the poet has scratched them out. You cannot read Loss, only feel it."

The Last Kiss- "Stop talking about love. Every asshole in the world says he loves somebody. It means nothing. It still doesn't mean anything. What you feel only matters to you. It's what you do to the people you say you love, that's what matters. It's the only thing that counts."

Garden State- "That's life. If nothing else, its life. It's real, and sometimes it fuckin' hurts, but it's sort of all we have."

Rent- "I don't own emotion, I rent"

"The heart may freeze or it can burn. The pain will ease if I can learn... there is no future. There is no past. I live this moment as my last!"

Zoolander- "Have you ever wondered if there was more to life, other than being really, really, ridiculously good looking?"

Ratatouille- "Change is nature, Dad. The part that we can influence. And it starts when we decide." "Not everyone can become a great artist, but a great artist can come from anywhere"

Graves of the Fireflies- "Why do fireflies have to die so soon?"

Shrek- "NO. Layers. Onions have layers. Ogres have layers. Onions have layers. You get it? We both have layers."

My Neighbor Totoro- "C'mon, what are you waiting for? We have to laugh loud to scare a spirit."

Spirited Away- "Once you meet someone, you never really forget them. It just takes a while for your memory to come back to you"

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I remember the time when chatting and email was a new tech and everyone was so into it. It was cool! It was new! It was convenient! We were hyped up about how it's so easy and quick to reach one another!...

Then we stopped writing hand letters. And e-cards took over airmail!... We don't get to see others' handwriting much nowadays!

Over time, mobile phone becomes a must! Having a home phone has become more of a house accessory than a functional device... Headsets, blue tooths are everywhere on the street....

Then, the latest communication toy came out- text messages! Now, due to business/school hours, we can't always stay on the phone, so txting is an escape! Whether you're in class, office, meeting, watching movie... you can reach and be reached anytime!

That was a wonderful and fun idea until... instead of returning a missed call like before, people now...txt back!?! And a guy asking for a girl's not so he can call her up for conversations, but to... get to know her thru txting!

First, we forget how our handwritings look like, next, we won't recognize each others' voices anymore. I can't help but wonder... Is technology supposed to help make communication easier, so that we can do it less everyday? Is it really the hi-tech that changes things, or do people simply take things for granted? But who knows, maybe it's just me who's silly to notice the strangeness instead of loving the conveniences that technology has brought us :)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I didn’t know how long it took to fall for someone. And I didn't know how to recover from a great journey that had ended unexpectedly.

But one day... I woke up, smiled and realized, I don't have to be in sorrow and suffer about what happened. I could cherish the fact that he came into my life, showed me what I was capable of, and taught me what love means. I'm a girl that believes in fate and there are reasons why we meet the people we do. I believe that regardless of how long the journey is, the person has shared a chapter in my life, and for that, I'm grateful.

The first time I fell in love was so sweet, too wonderful that I couldn't pull myself out and admit that it had ended. Oh how much of a fool I was to not see that life had so much to offer. It has given me a little taste and already, I was too weak to continue. I need to keep going, to experience the endless possibility, rather than mourning over the possibilities that didn't happen.

I'm glad that I took a chance to fall in love. And I believe that I've grown from it. I've learned to love, to be loved, and to hold on as well as let go. It's time to start a new chapter in my life, wonder what I should title it ;)

You should message me if

When do we stop chasing each other? When do we stop and wait for one another?