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LavishLola

61 Siler City, NC Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 49–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Administration
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am self sufficient, warm and caring. This is my world and welcome to it. Finding a special someone for me is my goal on this site. Life as a hermit is not for me. I love to share my thoughts and feelings and know what is going on in the life of others. Alone sometimes is fine, but not all of the time. We were made to be matched up with someone so I am hoping cupid will work for me.
I love my animals, I have a horse, goats, cats and dogs. They are a soothing part of the day. It is nice to know that I am needed unconditionally.
What I’m doing with my life
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I manage a convenience store to make a living. My customers are a very rewarding part of the day. I love to make them smile. I always add a bit of humor in most every transaction.
As a release, I like to spend time in the garden and play on the computer. I like to create on the computer, different cards and items that I use to make life simpler and more interesting. I like to read before I go to sleep. It is a way to wind down after a busy day. A good romance novel that is not too heavy is great.
I like to advocate for Victims of Domestic Violence, whether male or female. There is always three sides to every story: his, hers and the truth. Sometimes just sitting there and letting them chat gives them enough courage to face the world again and know that they are not alone. Everyone needs that, no matter what the circumstance. I am a great counselor.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at anything that I put my mind to. I love to talk about any and everything. If there is a subject you want to discuss and I don't know about it, I will research it so I can talk comfortably about it.
I like to garden and putz around outside when the weather is nice. I like to talk with my animals and watch them as they go about their business.
I am learning to have more confidence in my cooking and I am loving it. I get to experiment on family and friends at least once per month.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think the first thing notice is my attitude. I try to smile and bring cheer to their lives. A smile is free to give and can give many rewards back. Sometimes I may be preoccupied, but not for long. When working for the public, they don't allow that to last for very long. lol I have been called a Redneck/Yankee in the most endearing manner. I am flattered that I fit in with the locals that I have lived and worked with for the last 20 years. That is quite an accomplishment. I have become a fixture in some peoples lives, they notice if I am not there. :)
Can I be a fixture in your life also?♥
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Romance novels, the Harry Potter series.
I like the poetry of Emily Dickinson and Sylvia Plath.
I love the movie: "It's A Wonderful Life." It is timeless.
I watch General Hospital and The Bachelor. Also NCIS and others like it, Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice, Brother's and Sister, The Good Wife, Criminal Minds, etc.
The music I enjoy is varied, but mostly Country. I love Josh Groban, Celine Dion, Enya, and many others.
I love most types of food. Lobster is my favorite. I love fish, a good steak and good Italian food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think that the 6 things that I can't do without are God, love, honesty, trust, loyalty, and friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life and the current events going on in this world. They effect everyone in both positive and negative ways. I try to stay current and to know what is going on.
I also think about my future and how I will spend it. I am hoping to spend it with someone special till the end of my eternity.♥
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my best girlfriend and her young son having dinner and playing games. We have to use our imaginations to keep a 7 year old amused. lol.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am lonely, even in a room full of people. Everyone seems to be a couple and it doesn't matter how well I know everyone, I am still the odd person out.
Anything more than that may or may not come out with time.♥
You should message me if
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you think we might have a connection, or at least something in common to chat about.