I am self sufficient, warm and caring. This is my world and welcome
to it. Finding a special someone for me is my goal on this site.
Life as a hermit is not for me. I love to share my thoughts and
feelings and know what is going on in the life of others. Alone
sometimes is fine, but not all of the time. We were made to be
matched up with someone so I am hoping cupid will work for
I love my animals, I have a horse, goats, cats and dogs. They are a
soothing part of the day. It is nice to know that I am needed
What I’m doing with my life
I manage a convenience store to make a living. My customers are a
very rewarding part of the day. I love to make them smile. I always
add a bit of humor in most every transaction.
As a release, I like to spend time in the garden and play on the
computer. I like to create on the computer, different cards and
items that I use to make life simpler and more interesting. I like
to read before I go to sleep. It is a way to wind down after a busy
day. A good romance novel that is not too heavy is great.
I like to advocate for Victims of Domestic Violence, whether male
or female. There is always three sides to every story: his, hers
and the truth. Sometimes just sitting there and letting them chat
gives them enough courage to face the world again and know that
they are not alone. Everyone needs that, no matter what the
circumstance. I am a great counselor.
I’m really good at
I am really good at anything that I put my mind to. I love to talk
about any and everything. If there is a subject you want to discuss
and I don't know about it, I will research it so I can talk
comfortably about it.
I like to garden and putz around outside when the weather is nice.
I like to talk with my animals and watch them as they go about
I am learning to have more confidence in my cooking and I am loving
it. I get to experiment on family and friends at least once per
The first things people usually notice about me
I think the first thing notice is my attitude. I try to smile and
bring cheer to their lives. A smile is free to give and can give
many rewards back. Sometimes I may be preoccupied, but not for
long. When working for the public, they don't allow that to last
for very long. lol I have been called a Redneck/Yankee in the most
endearing manner. I am flattered that I fit in with the locals that
I have lived and worked with for the last 20 years. That is quite
an accomplishment. I have become a fixture in some peoples lives,
they notice if I am not there. :)
Can I be a fixture in your life also?♥
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Romance novels, the Harry Potter series.
I like the poetry of Emily Dickinson and Sylvia Plath.
I love the movie: "It's A Wonderful Life." It is timeless.
I watch General Hospital and The Bachelor. Also NCIS and others
like it, Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice, Brother's and Sister,
The Good Wife, Criminal Minds, etc.
The music I enjoy is varied, but mostly Country. I love Josh
Groban, Celine Dion, Enya, and many others.
I love most types of food. Lobster is my favorite. I love fish, a
good steak and good Italian food.
The six things I could never do without
I think that the 6 things that I can't do without are God, love,
honesty, trust, loyalty, and friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life and the current events going on in this world. They effect
everyone in both positive and negative ways. I try to stay current
and to know what is going on.
I also think about my future and how I will spend it. I am hoping
to spend it with someone special till the end of my eternity.♥
On a typical Friday night I am
With my best girlfriend and her young son having dinner and playing
games. We have to use our imaginations to keep a 7 year old amused.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am lonely, even in a room full of people. Everyone seems to be a
couple and it doesn't matter how well I know everyone, I am still
the odd person out.
Anything more than that may or may not come out with time.♥
You should message me if
you think we might have a connection, or at least something in
common to chat about.