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AJSpen

31 M Philadelphia, PA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:39am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on law school
Job
Law
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I worked for a few years a professional classical singer (opera, oratorio, and classical song). However, I found that music, as much as I loved it, wasn't where my passion was. So now I am working toward a legal career and I couldn't be happier with my choice.

I am a flaming liberal and am passionate about law and politics. In fact, I like to talk about all of the things people aren't supposed to talk about in polite conversation: law, politics, religion, gay rights, reproductive rights, Supreme Court decisions, elections, you name it.

I enjoy outdoor activities like running, hiking, rollerblading, swimming and such as long as they don't last overnight. I want to sleep inside. In a bed. I don't camp unless absolutely necessary. I also love martial arts, theater (musical and straight), books, movies and Italian food.

I hate the gym, but I do work just to keep from getting out of control. I play racquetball quite a bit with my law school friends, but I am a bit stocky and there is no getting around it.

I actually do have my beard right now, but when I worked for the Navy this past summer they made me shave it off. I have grown it back for the winter and I will see what happens when it gets hot again.
What I’m doing with my life
Second year law student at Temple University. Worked this past summer in DC with the Navy Judge Advocate General's Corps at the Washington Navy Yard. I also currently write as a freelancer for NewsWorks WHYY here in Philly.

After law school I intend to join the Navy JAG Corps. That makes dating a bit of a hard sell. I wouldn't be leaving for two years, but when I am in the Navy I, and my spouse, will have to move around the world every two or three years for the foreseeable future.
I’m really good at
I am an excellent singer, a great cook, I can pivot plans on a dime, I am good at rolling with circumstances, I'm a good writer, and I am a great student of just about anything.

I listen very well and I give good advice. I also can tell when it is more important to stay quiet and just let someone vent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors - Kahlil Gibran, Dan Brown, Gore Vidal, William Shakespeare, Anne Rice, Robert Jordan, J.K. Rowling, J.R.R. Tolkien, Terry Brooks, Jim Butcher...I could go on and on.

Movies - Anything but horror films. I have a soft spot for Rom Coms and Martial Arts films.

Music - I have two Master's degrees in music. I love anything but rap.

Food - Literally anything. I love food.

TV - The Rachel Maddow Show, Suits, HIMYM, Warehouse 13, Cover Affairs, Bones, Hawaii Five-0, NCIS (both of them), Modern Family, The Big Bang Theory, The New Normal, Project Runway, Top Chef, Happy Endings, and Elementary. (Side note, I am way to busy to actually watch all of these shows, but I do like them).
The six things I could never do without
Family, friends, good food, good music, love, and adventure.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"Then said Almitra, Speak to us of Love. And he raised his head and looked upon the people, and there fell a stillness upon them. And with a great voice he said:
When love beckons to you, follow him, though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to you believe in him, though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, so shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself. He threshes you to make you naked. He sifts you to free you from your husks. He grinds you to whiteness. He kneads you until you are pliant; and then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.
But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure, then it is better for your that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor, into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears."
On a typical Friday night I am
Detoxing from the week with good food, good friends, and good laughs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a weakness for redheads. I don't know why, but it's there.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you want to. Be forewarned though, I am looking for a relationship. Not that I am averse to sex, far from it, I am just tired of that being all.