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38 M Caledonia, MI

My Details

Last Online
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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
A little extra
Christianity, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I adore intelligent conversation and debate, although I am always mindful of the distinction between being passionate and being personal. I am iconoclastic, deep-hearted, non-sequiter, and always curious. All that being said, I don't take my self TOO seriously :)

I was a baker for a decade out of high school, then went back to school and studied here and in Europe for a year, which was an amazing experience.
What I’m doing with my life
I was a baker for a decade out of high school, then went back to school and studied here and in Europe for a year.

I work full-time second shifts at an international company dealing with hotel reservations and service. Unfortunately this means that most of available social time is either late night or on the weekends.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh. Cooking; I love to cook for people. Pretty handy around an oven, I make a mean loaf of bread, and wicked awesome pies.

I'm also a good listener, and, if needbe, usually a good problem solver.
The first things people usually notice about me
My laugh, my size, and my shiny bald head.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a sucker for alternate history books, especially Harry Turtledove and Robert Conroy. I enjoy fantasy and SF. Some of my favorite authors are Robert Jordan, Orson Scott Card, David Gerrold, Robert Heinlien, and George R.R. Martin. I also enjoy reading historical non-fiction as well.

I don't watch a lot of TV, but some of my favorite shows are
Arrested Development, Walking Dead, Babylon 5, Big Love, Dexter, A Game of Thrones, The Shield,Breaking bad and the various Star Trek series. I grew up on old school anime like Star Blazers, Robotech, and Voltron.

I tend to love a lot of very unhealthy foods that involve meat, potatoes, and copious amounts of cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Apparently filling this field out is not one of them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably getting home from work and relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a huge. cuddly, non-vanilla nerd. I totally rock a D20. My Fetlife SN is Intellectualfreak, If you are interested in that sort of thing.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You share similar interests, or just enjoy good conversation or debate and a semi-quick wit. I adore a woman who stimulates me in all the intellectually appropriate places; as my friend Geeky_Freak says, "You must make the mind wet first."

Hopefully you are open-minded about your beliefs and the beliefs of others, but not afraid to speak your mind if you don't buy into them. I'm always happy to meet new friends, so please feel free to drop a line!

Also, you likely should not be easily offended :)