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45 • Drums, PA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 41–53
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 3:21pm
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on university
- Strictly monogamous
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Has dogs
I work as a Project Coordinator for a Fortune 500 company - doing a little of this and a little of that. My job is never boring and I love the challenge. It may find me in Maryland tomorrow, the Lehigh Valley next week. Most of what I do is take complex software platforms and apply them to real-world applications to build new process infrastructure. But that's what I DO, not who I AM.
Oh, and I make excellent lasagna and meatballs.
I'll never miss an episode of The Walking Dead, Supernatural or American Horror Story. I'm discouraged by people who can't see the underlying stories of the human condition that are presented in a "horror" medium. What REALLY scares me is the national news - rising inflation, intolerance and a gallon of gas costing more than a gallon of milk?? FRIGHTENING!!!
Taken literally, I answer:
Air, Food, Water, Clothing, Shelter, Warmth
Taken as a statement of those things which are most important in my life, I answer:
Compassion, Positive Attitude, Love, Curiosity, Joy, Gratitude
Taken as a question of decadence , I answer:
Books, Wine, Iced Chai Lattes, Full Body Massages, Bubble Baths, Chocolate
And finally, taken as a statement that defines who I am, I answer:
My watch – so that I can appreciate stolen moments of happiness amid a crazy day.
My strong legs – which have carried me all of my life, through good times and bad.
My forgiving heart - which prompts me to continue forward when life has been hard.
My four-legged friends - who remind me that love is unconditional.
My two-legged friends - who remind me to laugh at the absurd.
My family - who consistently allow me to strive forward while providing a safe, soft place to land.
(NOTE: If you’ve listed “sex” in this section of your profile, you get one point for honesty, but I’m afraid you lose two points for stating the obvious. I believe it goes without saying that in the right relationship, an intimate sexual component is vital. However, you’re here looking for that special someone. Sell me on what you bring to the table. Telling me that you’re a man who enjoys sex is like telling me the sky is blue. There’s a time and place for everything. The initial contact is not the place.)
Why do men say they're seeking someone "open-minded" when they are really looking for someone slutty?
I know He's out there - how much longer must I wait to meet him?
1) You're ready to indulge in witty conversation.
2) You're looking for an adult relationship.
3) Your baggage is small enough to fit into a carry-on.
4) You understand that any relationship, romantic or otherwise, depends on mutual respect and honesty.
5) You are a man content within himself, and not looking for someone to "complete" him. Jerry McGuire was a movie, not a philosophy.
**UPDATE 4/25** Hey guys, I know online dating is hard. Maintaining an email conversation with someone is even harder, but when a message exchange starts to feel like I'm conducting a job interview, you're going to lose my interest really fast. Ask questions - don't wait for the woman to do all the asking. That makes it seem like you're not interested or can't carry your end of a conversation. Have you been wondering why women stop writing back to you? It's because you're letting the conversation die by talking too much about yourself and not asking questions to get to know her.
DON'T message me if you are looking for casual sex.
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