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LeBibish

27 / F / Bisexual / Single

Deming, New Mexico

Her Details

Last Online
Aug 5, 2011
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I hate self-summaries and introductions and "reflections" whenever I have to do them.

I got a BA in anthropology because I like learning about people. Mostly I like stories. History, personal, make-believe, musical, art--I like narrative in many forms. I especially love fairy tales and mythology. All sorts are great. I play RPGs partly for the story. I like songs better when I can weave a story around them. I read fanfic, write fairy tale retellings, and watch all sorts of movies and TV shows because I'm interested in the world-building or characters or plot--it's all fairly equally interesting.

I'm a quiet person and I tend to be a homebody--I'd like to get out more but I need someone to give me some motivation--mostly through going out to places and events with me. I am overweight and do a lot of sitting--on couches, in front of the computer etc, but I also enjoy hiking and getting outside. I'd like to get involved with a walking book club--it sounds like fun and good-for-you.

I had an assignment in Teaching Social Studies called a Where I'm From poem. Thought I'd share.I am from el otro lado,
where the willows grow.
I am from mud-puzzles, nature-walks
Indian burial grounds and wild cats hiding
in ancient trucks.

I am from hillsides and thunderstorms,
rivers dried up and dammed and swept away by sudden floods.
I am from washed out cars and fields
and clutching my father's hand
wading across deep water gong to school.

I am from fairy tales and story books,
nights filled with Narnia, pirates, Rumplestitskin and spaceships.
I am from book-lined walls of philosophy, history and reptiles of NM,
handwritten notes and computer screens,
blinking green letters turned to words on bright white paper.

I am from songs every morning,
the circle game and the ranger's command and it's a gift to be simple.
I am from apple pancakes, quesadillas, shepard's pie,
Campbell's soup, huevos con chorizo
and supper club Saturdays.

I am from airplane flights to family spread across the country
and camping trips every summer.
I am from the Smithsonian, Golden Gate Park
the Phoenix Zoo, the Gila Cliff Dwellings and
The Salt of the Earth.

I am from the Kneeling Nun,
and the mines, pits of rock and strange colors.
I am from brown winters, green summers, blue skies
and if you don't like the weather,
wait five minutes.

I am from Peters and Davids stretching back into
forts and foreign lands.
I am from languages known but never spoken
and history in bits and pieces, stories never told
because you never asked.

I am from luminarias and Christmas mass,
Quaker silences and Greek myths.
I am from Isis, Osiris, Coyote,
Odin, Loki, la Virgen,
butterflies.

I am from RESPECT and patience,
practicality and compromise
I am from talking through your problems,
apologies and avoiding conflict
and why don't you listen.

I am from bike rides to fetch the mail
and finishing off the rocky road at the ice cream shack.
I am from capture the flag games
at recesses with no adults around
and walking the hills with Chica, my dog, my sister.

I am from clean rain and bright stars,
cranes dancing over the river.
I am from lost jobs, closing mines,
strutting cowboys, old hippies,
and heroes every where you look.

I am from silver and copper and cottonwood trees.

I am interested, quiet, and in love with stories

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What I’m doing with my life
I'm in school to become an elementary teacher. Free time--reading, hanging out online, cross-stitch, playing PS3.

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I’m really good at
I'm good at listening to people, editing papers, writing, reading, and finding contentment in the world around me.

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The first things people usually notice about me
I'm really quiet when you first meet me but I get more comfortable after a while and can be fun. Also, although I don't really drink I do a pretty good impression of being high if I get too tired. I babble a lot first. Then I start dancing, singing, running down deserted roads with mountain lion sightings at midnight...

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like fantasy--Diana Wynn Jones, Mercedes Lackey, Jennifer Roberson, Charles de Lint. All excellent most of the time. I also read YA--again, more fantasy than not--some anthropology stuff, history.

I like movies. I'll go to just about anything but Will Ferrell.
I like anime. I also like Firefly, Eureka, Supernatural and Merlin (you may notice a theme).

As for music, I'll go with just about anything. I tend to gravitate towards folk, celtic and rock.

I'm trying to learn to cook--but I'm definitely not there yet! My favorite food is shepard's pie--meatloaf, veggies and mashed potatoes on one plate. Yay.

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The six things I could never do without
I have a whole lesson plan I've done on Maslow's hierarchy of needs and similar plottings. Seriously. I like talking about it.
Food, air, water, shelter, community.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
stories. Also, I have an entire rant on why integrated curriculums are the way to go. Not anything technical--just impassioned ranting. It's fun sometimes.

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On a typical Friday night I am
At home. Playing games. Going to a movie. Reading.

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I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 22-30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You want to talk or hang out.

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