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51 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
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Mostly anything
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Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly monogamous
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Texas-born and DC-raised, I’ve lived in New York City for thirty-two years.

I am enjoying a long and happy career, into which I've put a lot of hard work and faith in the job, myself, and others. It gives me opportunities for creative expression, breadth of knowledge and the joy of being part of a collective. It demands sometimes that I travel, but it also has allowed me to live and work with people of different cultures, which I cherish.

After running and lifting for many years, I found Mysore style Ashtanga yoga three years ago, and have been and remain committed to practicing it.

I do love to hike. My Jeep is my summer house, so I'm in the mountains and at the beach.

I received a 6 on the Narcissistic Personality Inventory, a very low score, but that doesn’t make me special. #veryhumblebrag
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm always trying to be better at what I do. And I'm always trying to refine myself as a person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using my kitchen appliances as storage—the oven is where I keep my pots and pans, which is great, except for when I forget they’re in there, pre-heat the oven, and the handles start to melt. I’m very food-forward! No one’s doing what I’m doing with industrial plastics in the kitchen.

(That joke was written in Manhattan. I have since moved to Brooklyn and have a larger kitchen. But fuck it, it's not bad, it stays up.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, I’m tall, so they can see me coming.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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These are just references, and no reflection of who I am as a person, but:

Just finished Viktor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning and Jane Austen's Northanger Abbey, re-read Philip K. Dick's Ubik, and waded into Orlando Figes's The Whisperers: Private Life in Stalin's Russia.

Thomas Piketty's Capital in the Twenty-First Century is on my nightstand, a purchase that was sheer optimism on my part.

Favorites include L'étranger, Pride and Prejudice, Have Space Suit—Will Travel, The Quiet American, Lolita, Ubik, Neuromancer, Alan Hollinghurst, mid-career Martin Amis, Ian McEwan's Saturday.

Movies: last year I liked Amour, Captain Phillips and Gravity; this year, I liked Inside Llewyn Davis, Snowpiercer and Boyhood, but nothing held a candle to 2001: A Space Odyssey in 70MM. I love a lot of Buster Keaton’s work, The Gold Rush, Rules of the Game, Nights of Cabiria, Wild Strawberries, From Russia with Love, Goldfinger, Jean-Pierre Melville thrillers, early Jean-Luc Godard, the Soviet War & Peace, Stalker, Law of Desire and a lot of Almodovar, Tarantino, Princess Mononoke, The Bourne Trilogy.

Music: Bob Wills, Leon Russell, Missy Elliot, Lil' Wayne, Wayne Hancock, Girl Talk, Alarm Will Sound, Hot Club of Cowtown, L7, many others...

Television: I rarely watch it, but Fargo I'm finding heart-stopping.

Theater: I always love to see what those crazy kids are doing downtown. Or in Bushwick.

Food: the crispy lamb with cumin and chili pepper at Fu Run, a Mongolian restaurant in Flushing, is the best thing ever and should be the official state food. I once, however, ordered braised sea slug, and that is on the top of my list of musts-to-avoid-in-future. I've taken that bullet for you: don't order braised sea slug.

All in all, I'm up for something that challenges me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Carbon, hydrogen, nitrogen, oxygen, phosphorus and sulfur.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Family. Friends. How to be a better person. Being an astronaut (the dreams of a six-year-old die hard).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
trying to reveal and shape the process of living.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Loud chewing irritates me.
You should message me if
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...any of this rings your bell, and you are a good-hearted, thoughtful, open-minded, selfless, genuine man of integrity. Or try to be. You are a living mockery of your own ideals. If not, you have set your ideals too low.

Nous sommes tout le monde ici sur OKCupid les passe-murailles, cherchant pour amour par wifi, et nos ondes quittent nos ordinateurs et nos iPhones, et elles volent à travers nos murs et elles pénètrent les murs des autres comme flèches d'Éros.