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Leaf_OnThe_Wind

23 / m / gay / single

Toms River, New Jersey, United States

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one fish, two fish, and red fish, blue fish

My self-summary Propose an edit

Here's an anecdote: One night a gentleman invited me to join him in a night of no strings attached sex. I told him I was not interested in that. In response he called me a young idealist and told me to check back with him in a couple years.

I suppose what he said was true. I am a young idealist. I think people are generally good, love exists, and magic is real.

I probably took this guy more seriously than I should have, but to be honest, the thought of becoming so jaded absolutely scares me. I know the world isn't perfect. I know there are people who never find love, but I have to believe that despite all that, love is out there and attainable. I also have to believe that in a couple years, if I don't find the man of my dreams, I'll have a loving family to fall back on and great friends to keep things light. I'll be happy and things we'll be just fine.

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What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I'm cooking up something real good... stay tuned folks!

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Sleeping. I've had 22 years of practice. The only reason I'm not a professional sleeper is because I'm keeping my amatuer status so I can go to the olympics.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

Honestly, people tend to notice I'm a nice guy. I think I send out nice guy vibrations or something. I like to think people notice my blue eyes. I know I notice them when I look in the mirror.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books: Killing Yourself to Live; Running With Scissors; Catcher in the Rye; Franny and Zooey; Me Talk Pretty One Day; Harry Potter; Sex, Drugs, and Coco Puffs; Catch 22; Clockwork Orange; Hamlet, Twelfth Night, and most other plays by Shakespeare; The Pictureof Dorian Grey; American Gods; Good Omens; and I'm currently reading Much Ado About Nothing and Sense and Sensibility.

Movies: Wet Hot American Summer; Serenity; The American President; Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind; Love Actually; Enchanted; Cloverfield. To be honest, I enjoy most movies I've seen. I tend to find something I like about them.

TV: Arrested Development; Firefly; The Office; How I Met Your Mother; Friends; Scrubs; Pushing Daisies: Heroes; Project Runway; Top Chef Sorry to say, I've given up on Lost. I have high hopes for Eli Stone.

Music: Ben Folds; Regina Spektor; Rilo Kiley; the Beatles; Queen; Coldplay;Showtunes Basically I've rediscovered how much fun it is to rock out to Wicked. That's right, I said it. I also enjoy Spring Awakening, Sweeney Todd, Avenue Q, and so many more. Other than that, I suck when it comes to new music. I rely on my friends to point me in the right direction.

Food: I think it would just be easier to list the things I don't like. mayonnaise... that's pretty much it.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Friends, Family, Laughter, Music, Literature,and the Internet

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

I think about the story I want to put on paper, but seems mostly stuck in my head.

I think about politics an religion way more than I should.

I think about time travel.

I think about grammer.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

A typical Friday night consists of one of three options. 1. Working, which may lead to number two, or directly to number three. 2. Hanging out with friends. Usually that involves going to the bar, going to the movies, or playing board games. 3. Staying home.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

For the life of me I cannot come up with anything good. It'll come to me eventually.

You should message me if Propose an edit

you like to watch Jeopardy, play board games and cards, or some other reason I didn't list.

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Leaf_OnThe_Wind: 1007 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini and it's fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
N/A
Income
N/A
Kids
N/A
Pets
N/A
Languages
English

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