Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m Leah, and I'm 23. I am a feminist, pansexual, polyamorous cis
woman, and in a committed, mostly non-monogamous relationship with
a wonderful individual who goes by Poet-of-the-Deed. Check him out,
he’s the most amazing person I’ve ever met.
Some important things:
1. I'm not going to jump into bed with you. I mean, I might, but
it's not a given. Open is the status of my relationship, not my
legs. I crave the chase, the anticipation, the butterflies. I want
to connect with you on some level other than a purely physical
2. I'm going to jump into bed with you. I know what I just wrote.
But you should prepare your heart/vagina/penis/other body parts for
the fact that I may be interested in a hookup — and only a
I am sex-positive and open to relationships with all gender
identities. I have no patience for homophobes, bigots, or
My interests include reading/watching Harry Potter even though I’m
sure the count is over a thousand by now, feminism, the internet
(particularly YouTube), going for shisha or drinks with my friends,
standing up for what is right, and cuddling my cat.
Also, I love dogs, but I don't have one. If you have a dog, how
about a date at the dog park?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now, I’m the assistant manager of a Claire’s. I actually love
it, but I’m going back to school next year to be a Medical Office
Assistant. It’s a career I can see myself doing for a very long
time. I may even go into nursing if I like it enough!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh and feel good, drinking too much coffee, buying
too many books, daydreaming, writing fiction, and ballet. I'm also
rather skilled at procrastinating.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a radiant smile, no matter how I'm feeling.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
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The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, my MacBook, lip balm, chocolate, sleeping in, and my
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What kind of tea I'll be having that day, my boyfriend, if I'm
going to be a good mother someday, why I can't sleep, how lovely it
would be if I could buy a new book, I should really stop bringing
home more Claire's stuff...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working/on my laptop/having too many glasses of wine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have general anxiety disorder and panic disorder, but this
doesn't affect me in social situations. In fact, I thrive in big
groups and have no problem making friends, public speaking, or
establishing relationships with almost anyone. My GAD and panic
disorder hits me at seemingly random times. I feel like this is
importance to mention as many people actually have no idea how to
identify/handle panic attacks, and learning how to overcome my
anxiety is a big part of my life.
You should message me if
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- you are an intersectional feminist
- the message does not consist of “hey”, “what’s up”, “how’s it
- you are a sugar daddy and want to give me a lot of money
- you identify with anything I have mentioned in my profile because
hey that’s cool and we will probably get along!!!
Please don’t message me if
- you just want to send a crude or explicit message. if you send me
anything like this (use your imagination) you will be
- you are interested in a threesome as I am not at this moment in
- you aren’t comfortable with the idea of an open
- you identify as an “anti-vaxxer”, or as I like to call them, The
Most importantly, if you are confused by your/you're,
there/their/they're, where/wear, too/to/two and proper use of an
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