I believe what defines you is -not the stuff you own - but how you treat people, how you react in a crisis, how polite you are to strangers (like waiters clerks), whether you make others feel comfortable, and are aware of how your behavior affects others. I also appreciate people who smile easy and have a broad range of what they define as humor. I love to laugh. I'm happy when people are comfortable around me.
I'm smart, silly, a computer nerd and always looking to improve myself and learn new things.
WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR:
Friends. Fun, no pressure. Prefer non-smokers.
I like odd, off-the-wall, non-conformist people. I enjoy people who have good stories - especially well-traveled people. Everyone has at least a few good stories about life. I usually prefer the temperament, charms & conversation of an 80 year old man to a 20-something, but enjoy the energy & strength and stamina of youth.
My physical preference (for romance): I love a VERY THIN male body. While I think women can and usually should be curvy, only a VERY thin guy with flat belly flips my switch. I also dig guys who wear eyeliner and/or jewelry. (goth or surfer kind, not liberace or gangsta). For friends, i have no physical preference.
I love music. I play drums, (both real and rock band). I create and mix music (on FL studio.) I love to dance. Disco (yeah, I admitted it) and techno are my preferred dance music, but I'll try anything – maybe. I really really don’t like country music.
I love summer thunder storms. Lightning and thunder are exhilarating. I feel totally alive and aroused in summer storms or on a tropical beach.
I’m self employed. I love to learn about almost everything. I click with others who understand the self-employed mentality. It requires creativity, organization, knowledge and risk-taking. I enjoy people who are well educated, or skilled at anything, particularly things they love. However, I cannot abide people being condescending or lording their knowledge over others. (was all that too serious?) ; )
I plan to leave tucson (aka, Armpit, Arizona) someday. I'm a Tucson native, and I've had enough of it. Where ever I end up, it'll be tropical. Beachy, breezy, moderate climate. I hate snow and I hate 112 degrees. I miss Hawaii. I'd love to make it back there.
When I do pack it up, I'll also be taking along my sister, and my parents who will be retiring soon. I'm very close with my family. That's just me, a package deal.
P.S. NO PIC=NO RESPONSE. It's a safety/trust issue. *I'm a cautious person when it comes to meeting people.