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46 Essendon, Australia Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 19
White, Other
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Emotional and passionate but able to give myself a good kick you -know-where when I over do it. Not literally of course. Eg, I get sooky when people get hurt on TV, or animals get hurt. I dont use emotion destructively or purely to get my own way. Stacks of empathy and sympathy which sometimes gets me into trouble. Will do almost anything for a mate/partner if they needed it. I believe in being the right partner not just attracting the right partner as that is when it often gets difficult and some people cant hack it. Which is ok.
Love my coffee and my life outside of work.
Please note i wear hearing aids (hidden by hair) and glasses /contacts but neither stop me living my life like a normal person. The hearing aids help me hear high and low pitched sounds. I am seriously not deaf otherwise. Nor blind.
Please also note I am voluntarily sterile.
Hazel eyes, short brunette/brown hair. Occasionally dye it red and trying to get the guts to go blonde. It will be weird but who cares.
I am one fifth through paying off my 3 bedroom unit.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working (library) major Uni. I am in the background sending books to other libraries. Not the traditional sense of a librarian at all sorry. I do that to survive. I have a lot more fun outside of work. I can be pretty spur of the moment and not the typical librarian brain. I like to live my life with passion and follow my ethics and what inspires me. I live with my daughter (high school 2013) and my 2 cats. I'm divorced and we share custody - every 2nd weekend she is at her Dads, Fri after teatime to Sun afternoon. No issues there. (he is remarried). I work 10-3 weekdays so it works around my child well. I am only able to meet someone on my weekends off - for the first meeting. Then once a relationship is established, they would need to travel to me on weeknights, as I am effectively housebound (at night time Only) **when I have a child in the house** Please do not respond if this is unsuitable for you. Thanks.

**On my weekends off there are no restrictions on what i can do**
I am also planning to cruise to Hawaii and hopefully scuba dive in 2014 or 2015 and that's exciting.
I like bike rides, eating, I'm a coffee, wine and cider aficionado, I play Wii games, computer games and board games with my daughter. i enjoy markets, fetes and garage sales.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
letting people feel comfortable around me and being able to express themselves without being censored or jumped on for being different to me. I try to be pretty tolerant and considerate of everyone. If you have a problem to solve I am better at "discovering" how you feeel about it than strictly what you want to do about it.
Love discussing sexual politics in general with anyone. And what makes you tick (if we are that way involved - Only).
A good coffee (yes i have the right machines. I'm also trying to do my own beans lately. Some results are awesome, some are, oh my god, fire brigade almost).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm short ish and I have great dimples (and smile) so I am told. I've dropped a bit of weight and are now looking to build strength within reason (legs mostly).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Go mad for sushi and most Asian inspired food. Not a good cook but now that my new kitchen is up and running I plan to be more spontaneous/inspired when i can. Books, mostly psychology, relationships, people-focused stuff. Occasional novel. Biographies. Not a movie head very often but will watch something if it really inspires me. Musically mainly 80's (Blondie, Clash, Cure, Stones, some Nirvana; DDuran, George Michael, Talking Heads, Queen, Billy Idol) from punk to disco to ABBA. TV : Porridge, Gruen, Bottom, music documentaries, music videos (80's again); cricket, AFL
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, and doing my own beans is great fun lately.
Alcoholic cider or white wine
Something to read that makes me think / improve my life somehow
80's Music
Something to aim for
Love being the most important thing as a motivator.
I tend to crack it without enough dance in my life, so be warned already .....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
relationships and how they work and sometimes don't work. Sexual politics and gender politics, as in, why can women do such and such and men are frowned upon or ridiculed for the same or similar behaviour. Why is womens sexuality so damned precious and guys sexuality is almost treated as a joke. Why are we bought up so that the guy is expected to do all the work in the relationship ? Etc etc. Welcome feedback on this especially as it really bugs me.
Maybe I am just anti feminist in the usual sense....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
maybe watching Gruen Transfer and having a few drinks. Or doing stuff on the computer and having a few drinks. Later I usually get into the music / get up and dance and sometimes Max on Foxtel.
If you know how to or want to dance or learn how to then I am definitely your kind of girl.
On my Saturday night off I make pizzas from scratch with Indian flat bread or a dough mix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I dont drive (not allowed to legally). Sorry. Public transport is not a dirty word however.
Im a fan fic author. (Groan) No really its not that bad.
You should message me if
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you like what i have to say and how i think.
You want a girl who isnt consumed by make-up 'buying and clothes buying.
If you're into cats, dancing in the loungeroom and 80s music.
If you can understand that i have to meet you before i give out my phone number. Its not a lolly its a privilege.
If the latest whatever gadget is Not your first or only priority in life. hate flashers/yuppies with a passion sorry.
If Youre Not looking for a career girl, sorry but in my case it aint never going to happen.
If you can afford to put in some effort Before You meet Me. Its not rocket science yet.