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42 M Mountain View, CA

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Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, German (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm not funny. What I am is brave.
Lucille Ball

I am fond of humor. Taking myself less seriously is important. Levity keeps the engine running. Life can be too much sometime not to Laugh. It's only online dating.

Spent a summer near Provence digging up old church
Worked for AmeriCorps for two years in youth service
Wrote and produced play for Sf Theatre Festival
Sailed from Roche Harbor to Vancouver Island

I am not a rockstar nor a millionaire or even home owner. But I am real and honest. And fearless. And I usually can make someone laugh with. I am eager to meet someone but also could use more friends/activity partners too.

Irreverent, audacious loquacious, outgoing, friendly, creative, and curious. And unpretentious. I don't take myself or online dating too reverently. Looking to meet people for new friendships and outings or a special someone.

"To share your weakness is to make yourself vulnerable; to make yourself vulnerable is to show your strength.” This is an important quote to me; I wonder if you agree...?

I am a pretty easy going person who values, deep connections, tiny moments, and authentic communication !l am close to my family, very forgiving and not prone to demanding my agenda gets met.
Want to go walk on the beach and get coffee ? Ride bikes thru Golden Gate Park ? Catch a live band ? go see a foreign or vintage horror film ?
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying the small things, savoring a meal, telling someone I love them.

I act, write, research and some sales too. Would like to get a grad degree at some point.

Things i enjoy...,Movies, hikes, concerts, dinner, make dinner , volunteer, travel, lectures, art showz, photography and live music. Cycling, swimming, weight lifting.
I’m really good at
Remembering the embarrassing things people tell me at parties. Not being shy. Being creative, connecting with others. Giving gifts. Endurance sports: cycling and running and swimming.
The first things people usually notice about me
I make them feel at ease. Taking risks
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
sonic youth, the band, stones, kinks, black flag, BJM, Al green, bob

the corrections, gastsby, sopie's choice, catcher in the rye, Shakespeare, Ted Kooser, Billy Collins, Gladwell, Orwell, Machiavelli :).

Too many movies to name, but... Babel, Klute, The Parallax View, Alien, Dr. No, Dirty Harry, Seven, Magnolia, Woody Allen, Cool Hand Luke, Breakfast at Tiffany's and Silence of the Lambs

I like Nyorker, Vanity Fair, and Bloomberg Business Week. How staid is that...
The six things I could never do without

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Live and let live. Treat others how you might want to be treated.

Life too short to play it safe.

Also how vastly inaccurate the OK Cupid Algorithms are when meeting in person. The best connections I have had were with women below 60% matching.

Businesses I want to launch.

If this article has merit
On a typical Friday night I am
Seeing a show, being in a show, out for dinner with friends, camping in the North Coast, having a glsss of wine,
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Dogs, children and homeless people are attracted to me.

Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius -- and a lot of courage -- to move in the opposite direction. Einstein
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 26–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Humor is important. Unpretentious

Living in the moment, with gratitude and chutzpah. Being courageous enough to follow your own path. Let's do it!

I could adore having a good friend with someone first. See what happens.