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39 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 15
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
As I hate writing about myself, I had to consult with a friend to assist in my self summary. According to her:

I am unique & possess some pretty bad ass qualities. I am dorky (something I am not embarrassed or ashamed of). I'm a great friend to those close to me. Artistic, creative, adventurous, easily adaptive to life.

I don't really fit in with a lot of people. And I'm not afraid of or ashamed of it. I liken myself to be part of the gang of misfit toys like in that Rudolph the Red-nosed reindeer christmas special. I fit in some where.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm happily focused on my career as a freelancer in the film industry. Moving on to bigger and more creative paths as well as getting my certification as an instructor. Being my own 'entrepreneur'.

Love all mediums in art. I dabble in (film) photography and art. Traveling and experiencing different cultures (except my own).

Finally, dreaming up and realizing my dream project of creating my own original graphic novel! But in the meantime, visually documenting my time people watching and being inspired by the outdoors.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at accepting whatever life throws at me while maintaining a positive attitude.

I have a pretty decent imagination. A good eye for photography (as I'm told).

I play a pretty decent villain, or nasty individual of society when asked to.

Being thoughtful.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My handwriting. I've been complimented that it is outstanding. Yes, I still like to hand write my personal letters.

My face because it's 'recognizable' (I don't know if that means we all 'look alike').

Also my voice. Quote: "You're very narrative when it comes to the different tones in your voice when you're talking and telling a story."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
written word:
Thelonious Monk: The Life and Times of an American Original, The Brief and Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Blood Meridian, King of the World

moving pictures:
Bladerunner, Indiana Jones trilogy, Happy Together, In The Mood For Love, There Will Be Blood

the tube:
The Wire. True Detective, Breaking Bad and American Horror Story are on my list of must catch-up on.

ear candy:
I listen to a lot of genres depending on my mood. Mostly to a lot of hip hop (not the crap that they play on the radio) & house music. I can take anything except country music. To those that need specifics, here are a few: Massive Attack, The Roots, Horace Andy, Miles Davis, Erykah Badu

I love eating but my main preferences tend to be japanese, italian, and german.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. (close) friends
2. camera & film
3. sketchbook and pencil
4. ID and money
5. the unknown
6. fresh socks & undies

I want to make an additional thing I can't live without and that's music!
i'm leaving phone out because i realize i heavily depend on it when i forget it. I must train myself to not care.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Daydreaming. Wondering. And they all end up in my sketch journal. Which is good source of material for my book project.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depending, it could be working, spending time with my friends after class, or just calling it a night and staying in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't have all the answers. I'm just as clueless as everyone else. But that doesn't mean I use that as an excuse to be ignorant.
You should message me if
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if you like your men sincere, honest, there, goofy, strange, sometimes a bit extreme, and faithful.

"If you can't handle the bad side of me, then you don't deserve the best side of me."
At the end of the day, you want to go home to something stable. Like me, you need that balance in your life when the scales have been tipped by daily life. To keep sane. You know that no matter how difficult things are in life, when times things seem flat and mundane in a relationship, you're willing to see it through, work it out together. You don't give up so easily from challenges. Because being with someone is team work.

And don't forget a partner in crime to go experience fun adventures with.

If you are interested, just message me. I don't trust the 'liking' system. Not paying membership to see who likes me. I could be spending that same money on a nice meal or place to go to on you instead! ;)