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LecPho

45 F Florence, MA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 12
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I’m in flux, and I’m completely embracing it. I’m in love with an awesome and supportive man to whom I am married and raising two bright, spirited, silly sons with.

I find there is not much life throws me that I cannot handle with dancing and mediation. I’m completely obsessed with Argentine Tango, it is my Zen experience. Tango is, above all, about the connection, that sweet juicy connection that is so grounding yet up lifting, raw and sensual. I love connecting with another person on this level.

I am a connection and energy junkie and I can't explain this stuff for you... it is an experience and something you know without "knowing why." So if you want to get all stuck in science and facts instead of experience we are not going to have much to enjoy together.

I love to laugh. Humor is an important aspect in my life whether it is puny, raunchy, or just plain silly. Movies and books are great although I don't often find/make time for them and I don't even own a TV.

I’m mostly, although possibly not exclusively, looking to connect with other women who are open to polyamory. No offense guys, but I’ve already got a great one…

I am NOT religious but I do find a lot of meaningful ideas to apply to my life from Taoism. As a person I strive to for equanimity, balance and the ability to acquiesce... flow with life. Now does this mean that I spend a lot of time in deep discussion about Taoist philosophy, nope, it is just an underpinning that makes so much more sense to me than any organized religion and I feel the principles of it could, and does have a positive affect on my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Dancing through it...
And playing with energy both in my personal and professional life as I work in renewable energy.
I’m really good at
In addition to dancing...
cooking of fresh, real food
photography
creative and artistic endeavors
I give excellent hug, been told I could do it professionally.
educating people
making people feel welcome and at ease
speaking my mind
puns
sarcasm - at times a bit too good
thinking on my feet
making connections
synergy
reiki
breathing deeply
The first things people usually notice about me
My dimples and outgoing personality. I hear I'm subtle but not overstated.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music:
I love melodies, rhythms and lyrics that move me both figuratively and literally. Tango Music both traditional and alternative (which really covers a lot of very diverse ground).
Books:
The Tao Te Ching
The Erotic Mind
Dragon Tiger QiGong Manual
Harry Potter Series
"The Time Traveler's Wife"
Barbara Kingsolver - "Animal Vegetable Miracle"
All Michael Pollan, "The Botany of Desire" was especially great.
Gary Taubes writing on nutrition - I don't eat grain. I don't eat sugar. I do eat lots of fresh greens... with bacon, mmm.
Please note that if you have a problem with folks who eat meat you should refrain from contacting me for sure.
Movies:
I love movies that make me think and surprise me. I'm way too good at figuring out where a plot is going to turn next. Favs, so hard to choose but The Shawshank Redemption, The Green Mile, What's Eating Gilbert Grape, The City of Lost Children, Delicatessen, Amilee all wonderful. Or make me laugh: Best in Show, Waiting For Guffman, Raising Arizona
Suspense and thrillers are great, The Usual Suspects, Inception... but not horror.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, family and deep connections are beyond valuable to me. As for 6 things...
Dance shoes
Circle skirts with thigh highs and garters
Cast iron cookware
My meditation mat
Fresh cherries
Bacon
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Yummy dance connections
Taoist approaches to life
making the environment cleaner and brighter for the future
food politics
how to be a better parent
How I can be Me more fully.
Being "here" now... and now... and now...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was told my last answer to this question was completely lame and that I could do much better.

So to that end, I have been told recently that from a sexuality perspective, I seem to presently be on par with a 16 or 17 year old boy. I guess that means I'm walking around checking everyone out and find myself often turned on...
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 26–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are open minded, ladies I dig the femmes, OK with being friends first & maybe more with a woman who is in a committed but open marriage with a man. Or perhaps you are just really compelled by my profile, and think we should know each other.

Note: If you need a "one and only" or someone to occupy all your free time, I'm not your girl. I have a life that is quite busy at times, but I do find time for people I really connect with and value.

If you like curvy women who like to get all dolled up.

If you dance tango all the better, but I enjoy making other types of connections as well.

If you "get" the whole concept of energy work and are interested in what it might mean to play with it;)

Clear and open communication are a must. I'm not here for some casual hook up but I am also not looking for all your free time. You should also be willing to have a very plain and up front talk about sexual health.

I'm looking to make real connections. Don't bother sending me some "line about my thigh." Let me know that you have actually read my profile and that something about what I have said about myself sparks something for you or something about you that makes you think we should meet.