Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m in flux, and I’m completely embracing it.
I’m separated, I work too much at a job that I really enjoy and am
busy trying to learn how to co-parent two bright, spirited, silly
I find there is not much life throws me that I cannot handle with
dancing, being present and mediation. I really enjoy deep energetic
connections. I bring them into my life through dancing Argentine
Tango, giving and receiving Reiki and massage, sound meditations
and anywhere else I happily stumble upon them. Tango is, above all,
about the connection, that sweet juicy connection that is so
grounding yet up lifting, raw and sensual. I love connecting with
another person on this level. Tango was my introduction into the
realm of energy and somatic experience and I am so grateful to have
found myself as an energetic being.
I am a connection and energy junkie and I can't explain this stuff
for you... it is an experience and something you know without
"knowing why." So if you want to get all stuck in science and facts
instead of experience we are not going to have much to enjoy
I love to laugh. Humor is an important aspect in my life whether it
is puny, raunchy, or just plain silly. Movies and books are great
although I don't often find/make time for them and I don't have any
TV shows I follow.
I’m mostly, although possibly not exclusively, looking to connect
with other women who are open to being open. I have been told I
present as a bit of a lesbian, but I really don't prescribe to the
idea of only being attracted to males or females. I'm attracted to
people, their energy and who they are. I am coy and reserved until
I get to know you and even then I will have my moments of coyness
that overtake me.
I am NOT religious but I do find a lot of meaningful ideas to apply
to my life from Taoism. As a person I strive for equanimity,
balance and the ability to acquiesce... flow with life. Now does
this mean that I spend a lot of time in deep discussion about
Taoist philosophy, nope, it is just an underpinning that makes so
much more sense to me than any organized religion and I feel the
principles of it could, and do, have a positive affects on my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Dancing through it...
And playing with energy both in my personal and professional life
as I work in renewable energy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being energetically available
cooking of fresh, real food
creative and artistic endeavors
I give excellent hug, been told I could do it professionally.
making people feel welcome and at ease
speaking my mind
sarcasm - at times a bit too good
thinking on my feet
reiki and energetic connections
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dimples and outgoing personality. I hear I'm subtle but not
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love melodies, rhythms and lyrics that move me both figuratively
and literally. Tango Music both traditional and alternative (which
really covers a lot of very diverse ground).
The Tao Te Ching
Cutting for Stone
Harry Potter Series
"The Time Traveler's Wife"
Barbara Kingsolver - "Animal Vegetable Miracle"
All Michael Pollan, "The Botany of Desire" was especially
Gary Taubes writing on nutrition - I don't eat grain. I don't eat
sugar. I do eat lots of fresh greens... with bacon, mmm.
Please note that if you have a problem with folks who eat meat you
should refrain from contacting me for sure.
I love movies that make me think and surprise me. I'm way too good
at figuring out where a plot is going to turn next. Favs, so hard
to choose but The Shawshank Redemption, The Green Mile, What's
Eating Gilbert Grape, The City of Lost Children, Delicatessen,
Amilee all wonderful. Or make me laugh: Best in Show, Waiting For
Guffman, Raising Arizona
Suspense and thrillers are great, The Usual Suspects, Inception...
but not horror.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, family and deep connections are beyond valuable to me. As
for 6 THINGS...
Circle skirts with thigh highs and garters
Cast iron cookware
My singing bowls
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Yummy dance connections
Taoist approaches to life
making the environment cleaner and brighter for the future
how to be a better parent
How I can be Me more fully.
Being "here" now... and now... and now...
Being "open handed"
The place where energy and sensuality meet, and being there..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Decompressing, hanging with my boys or cramming in work due to a
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was told my last answer to this question was completely lame and
that I could do much better.
So to that end, I have been told recently that from a sexuality
perspective, I seem to presently be on par with a 16 or 17 year old
boy. I guess that means I'm walking around checking everyone out
and find myself often turned on...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you are open minded, ladies I dig the femmes
- you are OK with being friends first & maybe more with a woman
who is into people not their gender.
- Or perhaps you are just really compelled by my profile, and think
we should know each other.
- you like curvy women who like to get all dolled up every now and
then. (I love to twirl in a good circle skirt, though I don't find
enough occasions to do so;)
- but you also think jeans and flip flops are great. (Sometimes I
go weeks without finding a good cause to dress up.)
- you dance tango all the better, but I enjoy making other types of
connections as well.
- you "get" the whole concept of energy work and are interested in
what it might mean to play with it;)
Note: If you need a "one and only" or someone to occupy all your
free time, I'm not your girl. I have a life that is quite busy, but
I do find time for people I really connect with and value.
Clear and open communication are a must. I'm not here for some
casual hook up but I am also not looking for all your free time.
You should also be willing to have a very plain and up front talk
about sexual health.
I'm looking to make real connections. Don't bother sending me some
"line about my thigh." Let me know that you have actually read my
profile and that something about what I have said about myself
sparks something for you or something about you that makes you
think we should meet.
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