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LeeISOU

48 / M / straight / Available

Freeland, Michigan

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
Long-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English, Spanish (Okay)

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I am secure, confident, and down to earth.

My Self-Summary

We're not all here to find the loves of our lives, but I hope you're looking for more than a one night stand. If it is good, why not enjoy one another?

Seduction for me usually begins with finding one another fascinating in some way. I wonder what that way will be...

Can it be complex but not complicated? Shallow but still somewhat deep? Let's find out. Discretion is a must, however we could potentially share an interesting journey together!

What I’m doing with my life

Working hard through the day, and taking time to "smell the roses". I don't know what the future holds (does anyone?), but I am trying to "be the best that I can be".

I’m really good at

I really enjoy dancing and wish I could do more of it. I also seem to be the one that people like to talk to about their issues-it feels good to be a sounding board, albeit there are some secrets which should always be kept!

The first things people usually notice about me

I have been complimented on my eyes, although a few times I have been told that I have a better "ass"et ;-)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I enjoy many different types of foods, and very rarely will I not try something new.

My musical tastes are pretty eclectic, although heavy metal, most rap music (not all!) and Gregorian chants are not in my collection.

I read many different genres, so what ever is in my hand at the moment is what struck me when I picked up the book.

Not into foreign films, will watch a "chick flick" with my partner (but won't get into a chick flick marathon session!), but I do enjoy a good drama or sci-fi flick.

The six things I could never do without

1. My Ipod
2. A good friend
3. SEX
4. A good night's sleep (although I would happily give it up for #3 on my list! LOL)
5. A good book
6. Learning from my mistakes

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I always like to "take a seat" and ponder the riches (not all riches are monetary based) in my life. Yes, sometimes the cup isn't always full, but there are people who are far worse off than I.

Why do people feel that the government owes them a standard of living? Shouldn't a government support system be used to help the truly needy get on their feet, then move on?

When will people take responsibility for their own actions (read screwups) and not blame someone else?

Sometimes "rude" is a worse four letter word than f**k

Does anyone know that the turn signal on their car does work and that when the lights blink, it is not a short in their electrical system?

On a typical Friday night I am

Reading, listening to music, or enjoying a nice walk under the stars.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

It wouldn't be private if I admitted to it here, now would it?

You should message me if

1) You find yourself in an unfulfilled relationship and are looking to fill that gap.
2) You are NOT looking for a permanent relationship
3) You just want someone to talk too, after all I am a good listener!
4) Just to say hello to a potential new friend-can we ever have enough friends?