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Lefire1981

30 / M / Straight / Single

Simei New Town, Singapore

His Details

Last Online
Today – 8:08am
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Random facts about me (changed whenever I feel like it)
1.) I'm nice to waiters. And waitresses.
2.) I'm supposed to be an ENFJ (borderline), but I need my alone time, and can pull people into seeing things my way.
3.) I'm an atheist, but one of my best female buddies is hardcore Christian. Yes, life is odd that way.
4.) I'm addicted to crack. Cracked.com that is.
5.) My idea of a good Halloween costume is an all-white shirt and pants, with a badge that has a red and blue lightning symbol.

MY TOPIC OF THE MOMENT (yeah, used to be topic of the week, but after weeks of not-bothering-to-update, it needed a change).

Something in one of the Walking Dead episodes has caught my attention. I can't say it here (with unleashing horrible spoilers) but I'll certainly like to have a conversation on it with some of the ladies who have watched both seasons (yes, it is that good). It concerns race relations and promises to be a topic of much debate.

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What I’m doing with my life
I am one of those people who keep rogue white-collars in line. Something like a deskjob superhero i suppose. Except that I wear my underwear on the inside. Most of the time anyway.

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I’m really good at
I do a mean Phantom. Bonus points if you are a fan of musicals.

Inventing my own quotes:
E.g. "Conscience is relative to what is at stake" - Me

Keeping an open mind, and being really good at sorting out all the rubbish that falls into it.

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The first things people usually notice about me
My height. I beat most other Asian males and can compete with a sizable proportion of Caucasians.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"The world is your oyster... then you find out you are allergic to seafood."

Ed: Oops. Ignore that. Damn monkey started writing Shakespeare instead of building my profile.

Books:
Moral Animal, Blind Watchmaker, Peter F. Hamilton's The Night's Dawn Trilogy, Reading People, Survival of the Prettiest: The Science of Beauty, Quirkology, Freakonomics, World War Z, 1984, Animal Farm, Mindless military-techno thrillers (i.e. war porn... guilty of sneaking an occasional read).

Shows:
Mythbusters, South Park, Walking Dead

Movies:
Monty Python (Life of Brian, Holy Grail), V for Vendetta, Donnie Darko, Amelie, Inception, Source Code

Musicals:
Phantom of the Opera, Les Miserables

Music:
Eminem, Aerosmith, Faye Wong... heck. Too many to list. Actually nearly everything except hip hop and Justin Bieber.

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The six things I could never do without
My sense of ethics. For example, one of my prized mementos is a simple membership receipt dated 2nd May 2009, the day of the AWARE EGM.

My sense of skepticism. (That is why I may visit your profile several times before I send a message / reply to you. If you look/sound too good to be true, chances are that you're a fake profile)

My gut instincts and ability to read people. E.g. I trust my microexpression / body language reading and subconscious perception.

A nice set of vids from one of my sisters showing how plain women can be made into stunners with skillful application of makeup. (Hint: Nothing dishonest in putting up a madeup shot as your profile pic. I know you want men who value you for your personality, but you gotta convince them to notice you first!)

Ed: Yeah thats 4. The monkeys writing this swapped to the PAP's definition of peanuts before they got to writing 5 and 6 and went on strike. They are still barricading my underwear closet. :(

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Virulent memetic viruses.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Staring at the okcupid app edit profile page while at work, trying to make it sound like a thing a really, really sexy guy will do.

Ed: Ok its not. Get me outta here!

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20-30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You are capable of forming your own opinions on an issue and confident of supporting it, yet honest enough to change it if faced with evidence to support an alternative view.

You are resourceful and have the intellectual curiosity to google / wiki something you don't know about, rather than sitting there and waiting to be spoonfed.

By the way, don't mind if I sometimes take a while to respond. Life likes to interrupt.

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