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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 26, 2013
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Not at all
Catholicism and laughing about it
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am really bad at playing hard to get. I don't like those games anyways.

I'm a morning person. I love to wake up early, sit on my couch, watch cheesy morning tv (i.e. disney shows), eat cereal, and drink coffee.

On my bus ride to work, I watch youtube videos. Lately the theme has been flash mobs, but I am also getting into clips of Ellen surprising guests with gifts. (I laugh, I cry)...

I'm spastic, energetic, social, and can be shy. I am very, very sarcastic and dry in my humor. I tend to talk too much. I love coffee. I don't cook. I can count on one hand the number of times I have been to a grocery store in the past 12 months. I love DIET COKE. I don't do drugs and dont drink alcohol. I do love to dance and love to have fun. I love food. I love walking around aimlessly without a real destination. I also love discussing the flaws of our nation's "leaders". I sometimes go on walks just to feel like I've accomplished something. I watch A LOT of bad movies. I especially LOVE bad horror movies.


I tend to keep busy so I have very little free time, but would love to find someone that I would want to make free time for.

If you understand the joy of sitting on the patio of a coffee place, just relaxing, we would get along just fine :)

I'm not here for hookups.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for a large health insurance company full time, am on the board of an LGBT non-proft, and am an on call counselor for a crisis line. I do not define who I am by my job, I define it by what I am making of my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to people, kissing, having an amazing time, remaining positive, treating people like I've always known them.

I am also good at being direct with my opinions. Some people would call this bitchy.... I call this ENDEARING. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my glasses
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite book of all time is 1984. I love all types of movies including dawn of the dead, harry potter, saved, pulp fiction, shortbus, love actually etc etc etc. I also love National Geographic specials. I love all kinds of music, but absolutely love anything poppy and upbeat. Food- i love food. All types of food.

In regards to shows--- I <3 musicals! I love American Idiot and Next to Normal and SPRING AWAKENINGS and RENT... give me a rock-opera and i'll give you my heart! :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my friends,
my family,
my self respect
Diet coke,
the chicken ranch wrap with fries from pick me up
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how am i to get from where I am in life right now, to where I want to be in the long run.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays, I usually go to dinner with friends and then head home to just chill :) OR i'm making a silly video like this one:
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I joined the gym for the sole reason to have access to the whirlpool spa on a regular basis. I'm Poz also, so if u have fallen for the stygma and prejudice, pass on by. :)
You should message me if
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If you like to take last minute trips to new york or disney world you should definitely message me :)

U aren't a republican, u don't shop at walmart, understand the joy of Life Cereal, u aren't too self-absorbed and think we might click...go ahead...i'm not an a-hole....promises (also, have your head on your shoulders, pretty please). If you drink often or do drugs often, we'll prolly not be a match....i respect myself, and prefer to only speak with those that respect themselves....bitches... ALSO... I'm really looking for something serious, so no games none none none #kthxbye