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Ethnicity Asian, White
Height 6' 0" (1.82m).
Looking For New friends, Activity partners
Smokes No
Drinks Rarely
Drugs N/A
Religion
Sign Aries and it's fun to think about
Education Working on college/university
Job Entertainment / Media
Income $0-$20,000
Kids Likes children
Pets Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)
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My self-summary
"... But then I sigh, and with a piece of scripture, tell them that God bids us do good for evil. And thus I clothe my naked villainy with odd old ends stolen forth of holy writ, and seem I a saint, when most I play the Devil."
-William Shakespeare, King Richard III
I grew up on the beaches of Florida, but I don't know how to surf. I spent my youth playing soccer in the street, RPGs around my mother's kitchen table, building tree forts, and playing in the gulf during hurricanes. I was into computers and video games when I was young, but I've matured into an artist, writer, and photographer. I am playful and self deprecating when I'm respected, but confrontational and competitive when I'm not. I lose on purpose if I know I'll win, and I never back down from a challenge.
In a relationship...
I am the most easy going person you'll meet. I am affectionate, but I can give a girl her space, and sometimes need a little of my own. I am looking for a girl that is beautiful and I'm not going to lie about it, but you might be surprised what I find to be attractive. She has to be able to be spontaneous, slender, and subtle, communicate like an adult, and let the hard times roll off her back. A girl that I am with has to have interests of her own and she can't be ashamed to share them with me. She has to understand that there are things that I like that make me a bit of a nerd, but she has to forgive me for it. I'm looking for a girl that is feminine and soft, who knows enough about fashion and style to make me fall in love with her when she's walking around the house in her pajamas. I want a girl who I can make feel beautiful even when she feels like she's ugly, and who can be beautiful even when she's not trying to be.
I want a girl with whom I'll never make small talk. I want a girl who I'll never have to lie to, because we tell the truth every time that we look at each other. I want a girl that breaks my heart every time I kiss her.
women I typically like: shy, crazy, disturbed, goth, cuddly, punk, demure, spontaneous, artistic, literary, boring but cultured.
Mood: I want to drink the fuel straight from your lighter.
Current Fortune Cookie: "You should get in touch with your feminine side at this time."
What I'm doing with my life
I'm a full time student at Kennesaw State University (KSU), majoring in Interdisciplinary Studies: professional writing and photography. I have a computer science certification, but I plastered the inside of my cubicle with pictures of David Hasselhoff and they asked me not to come back. I enjoy doing emotive, expressive, and glamor portrait, though architectural and landscape aren't bad either. My foundation is still in literature; I write short stories about smurfs, poetry about you, the first six pages of novels, and I collect fortune cookies.
I'm really good at
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me
I'm usually the one that goes out of the way to break the ice when a group is quiet, but if I'm around a loud group of people I tend to be more reserved and easy-going. It might have something with the fact I liked to take the road less traveled, or perhaps it's simply that I like to be unique. Who really knows?
There is some irony, perhaps hypocrisy, in that I seek out people who are genuine, and it is only to those people that I show myself. In my heart there is light and there is shadow - in equal measure.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
(B) Closer, Fight Club, Pride and Prejudice, The Princess Bride, Advent Children, V for Vendetta, Office Space, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Proof, A Beautiful Mind, Shaun of the Dead, Lie With Me, American Beauty, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, etc...
(C) Regina Spektor, Mike Doughty, Utada Hikaru, Matchbox 20, Flyleaf, Yoko Kanno, Phil Collins, The Cure, Louis Armstrong, Linkin Park, Eric Clapton, Dave Matthew's Band, The Doors, Queen, Three Days Grace, Counting Crows, The Killers... basically anything not involving bling or banjos.
(D) Sushi, Steak (medium rare), Red Potatoes, the amazing Cylon detector, Pangalactic Gargleblaster, and the lamentation of my enemies.
The six things I could never do without
There are times when I feel like I would be better off alone and put away the search for love. I am haunted by too many relationships that have made me feel ugly either in the flesh or in the heart. Yet, I can think of nothing that would do more to make me feel some amount of peace and calm in life than to love a woman who loves me in return.
A living thing can be replaced with another, but a life, once extinguished, is gone from the universe forever; and so, there is evil in making war where there could be peace instead, though the grief of death can be forgotten. However, to be unable to make war when evil visits upon those you love is another kind of evil. The sort of which a man can never forget.
We have an enormous world full of people and places. There is no limit to the number of accomplishments a person can achieve in their life, and yet for all the things we can have and all of the things we can do, our entire world is only an echo in the night sky of some other. All I really want is to, at the end of my life, sit down with an true friend, a chuckle, and say, "Good times."
... I could also deal with some Sour Gummi Bears.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"People like you and I, though mortal of course like everyone else, do not grow old no matter how long we live...[We] never cease to stand like curious children before the great mystery into which we were born."
- Albert Einstein
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here
You should message me if
If so, I will adore you. I'm also always looking for new friends.
So long, and thanks for all the fish!
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