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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35-49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 31
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and it’s important
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a solid, musician/tech guy looking for a good-natured, self-assured, relaxed woman for good conversation and memorable times.

I am a pretty even-keel kind of person - understanding, honest and compassionate. I like order in my life, am principled and dependable. I love witty exchanges and new words. I do not dance much, but do admire a skillful dancer without inhibitions.

I enjoy people who speak their mind, as long as it is thoughtful, truthful and on-point. Not big on makeup, prefer the natural look. I am generally not very romantic, but enjoy playfulness and making people smile and laugh.

My family is extremely important to me. I've got three beautiful girls under 11 - they keep me very busy. I have them every other weekend and a couple times a week. I have hopes to introduce them to the woman I am dating, but only after I am reasonably sure that person is a compliment to our lives.

When I have free time (this is a relatively new thing for me) I spend time with friends, at home, rehearsal or at local music events in the area. Would love to venture out more...just need a partner in crime ;). I really enjoy weekend trips and camping. I love to travel when time and money allow.

I am looking for that special somebody to spend my free-time weekends with. However, after 13 years of marriage, I am not overly eager to devote myself to one person just yet. As you know, the search takes time and I am not one to jump I am patient, tentative and keeping my options open.

I will know the right person for me when I meet them - however, we've got to meet first - I cannot tell that you are a fantastic woman by your profile alone. Chemistry is discovered not stated. So...let's go have a drink and get to know each other!

In my travels, I've found it is best not to have pre-conceived notions or expectations on most things in life. I like to talk about real things in the here and now (because we know not what the future holds) and find a direct (...not bossy) woman refreshing (no guessing means no games, right?) but I have interests and intentions going forward as well, so fairness and respect for each other is paramount.

I am not a salesman, needy, clingy or rude. Be bold. Take a calculated risk and drop me a line or two and hopefully, we'll soon be chatting and laughing together. I look forward to hearing from you!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Co-raising my kids and bettering myself through education and learning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping a beat and darts.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am reading a couple of books..."Old Gods not Dead" (Rolling Stones biography) and "So Damn Much Money - The triumph of lobbying and the corrosion of American government." Like action films and comedies. Last movie seen was "Safehouse". LOVE live music and pretty much ANY food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My girls, Music, Travel, Head and body stimulation, Family, Food and drink
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make things easier and how to get people to make better choices for themselves and the rest of the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging with my girls, at home or catching or playing some live music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a penchant for nice butts...and braids.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. have a nice arse, you don't play games, you are intellectual, you like to enjoy yourself, you don't take yourself too seriously, you are funny, you don't have preconceptions, you are mellow (no drama). And if you have all of the've waited too long already! E-me!